Men can I ask a genuine question? Do men honestly not find black women attractive? I’ve been here for a few months and even talked with men in my direct messages and once they find out I’m black, it’s a wrap. We are highly intelligent (PhD student here), beautiful and loving.

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Black queens are the most attractive 🙋🏻‍♂️

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So you don’t want women to think highly of themselves… based of your comment “how inflated do you want their egos to be?”

People just have preferences, I’ve met many black women that won’t date certain races. I myself have dated black women before though it’s not a problem for me, I would date any race or ethnicity as long as I find an interest/attraction I’m a Hispanic man just for reference.

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Here ya go OP perfect match

OP I believe you 💯 . When I chat with Indian men here that dm me, and they find out I’m black, it’s a wrap. I’m used to it already so I don’t bother.

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You're not missing out, good riddance trust me.

Not at all! I like black women and women of all religion, background, profession.

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There's perhaps somewhat of a selection bias in the responses here, as people who really don't find Black women attractive as a group probably won't just say this here (for that you'll probably need to go to Reddit).

BUT - I posit that many non-Black men *do* find Black women aesthetically attractive but think somehow they're not "supposed" to say so, they're afraid not just of what their friends/family might say (though there's definitely that) but also of being signed by Black men when out and about (this has happened before). Many are like John Mayer (IYKYK).

And last but not least there's this baggage from the 90s and beforehand where people assume Black women are only interested in Black men and nothing else.

As more and more people see Black women in interracial relationships or will become more normalized, leading to more...

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M1 - Ah, typo. I meant attacked

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Definitely false! I’ve dated several black women and those are some of my fondest memories

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Agree with the "personal preferences" comment above. Just like I've some women post they need a guy to be 6'.

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Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurl! It is Sacramento. That conversation is an extremely long one. I believe black love exists in California, but the good ones are hidden.

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Black women are the most desired women on the planet.

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My wife is black with our 2 mixed daughters. Nothing better than an educated beautiful black queen.

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No lies here

Hit me up I would love to get to know you better

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