My insecurities and inabilities to communicate always make me make a bad decision.

At every job, despite doing well, I always have an insecurity that I’m on the cutting board next perf cycle. That always lead to me looking outside and only to realize most issues could’ve been solved by communication.

For every new jobs, I always seem to pick the worst among all others. I’m now moving to a new one and despite everyone’s telling me for one, I pick the other based on gut feeling. Wish me luck.

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Very modest of you, very demure

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Do you have imposter syndrome? Maybe you're not giving yourself enough credit. You have to speak positively about yourself, to yourself. I bet you're not as bad as you think are, you just need to believe it.

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And you are a decision scientist?!

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Maybe try learning from your mistakes and listening to others. Just maybe....

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Just a reminder that outside our bubble no-one really cares about firm prestige etc.

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I find the trauma challenges on tiktok unsettling

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