My parents have sacrificed blood, sweat, and tears to give me a good life and now they are getting older and have no retirement safety. My sister and I have decent jobs, but we’re both worried.

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

Random question but do you let your kids hang out in your bedroom and use your master bath if applicable? My kids always seem to want to use our bathroom instead of theirs and my spouse doesn't care but I grew up with my parent's room basically being off limits and think I'd prefer it that way.

How do i find out if I will be happier divorced or more unhappily staying married. 2 kids; 2 & 4 YO. They don’t hear the arguments after bed time and don’t understand the bruises yet but I know it’s just a matter of time. It would be so much harder not seeing my kids everyday than living with the pain, loneliness and lost friendships. But I’m tired. And so sad. Lost. So alone. Does anyone have something that turned it around? He changed? You changed so he did? Ayahuasca retreat maybe?

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

I'm a product engineer and it's hard to turn off work mode at the end of the day, I think of how products *should* be packaged when I'm shopping and can't understand why my wife doesn't care 🤷

For those that are the children of immigrants or are an immigrant themselves-what’s the greatest lesson that you’ve learned from your upbringing/family that you now apply to your career & life?

I’m irritated ALL the time and it’s ruining my relationship. What’s wrong with me? lol should I just start smoking weed or get on an anti depressant?

Anyone have to retake their NIPT test? My results came back as insufficient quantify and I’m freaking out. I’m 11.5 weeks. Not a high BMI or anything so I’m worried something is wrong with my baby

My anxiety has been relatively constant during this whole wfh covid situation so I haven’t been wanting to be intimate with my partner as often. They said its bringing down their mood, any advice?

Partner of 2 years has asked for space. No contact for a month but agreed to go to couples therapy then. This after a really hard month relationally and then she had to put her dog down. Asked for..

Would you be bothered if a colleague (peer or subordinate) went on vacation to the Caribbean for Thanksgiving, then decided to stay there and work remotely while his wife continued to vacation for another 2 weeks? I am the wife and I'm trying to get an idea of whether this would hurt my husband at work. He has been working while on vacation, so he has already showed that he can work. But he only started in August.

Do you think your friends would be jealous of you if you did well in life?

I’ve been in a relationship now for two years. We are living together. We talk about the future etc. I could easily see myself marrying her. However, I have an issue… cont

Deeply afraid of being married to someone like the girl in sex/life on Netflix

Any suggestions on how to save a alcoholic spouse?

Salaam. 26 M. Houston. My hobbies are traveling, watching sports, and hanging out with friends. Hope to get married this year, ان شاء الله.

My mother in law is dying of cancer but is also a toxic person. My husband has mixed feelings around letting her dump all of her emotions that should be handled with a therapist on him. Beyond this,

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

How do I start the divorce process? Do I have to get a lawyer? Help...!

Since we returned to office in October, is it appropriate to give holiday gifts to team members?

How to ask for onsite opportunity from company?
Not in HCL, but all service based company

I’m tired of being mocked for being fat.. I feel helpless and like crap.. 😭

Anyone know if PwC offers a discount to equinox Southport ct or any other way to get a discount

Hi everyone, Looking for a Job change in field of IT SOX Compliance and IT advisory…. Currently working at EY for 2.5 years,with almost 5 years of experience IN BIG 4…
Let me know incase if any job opportunities. Location: Mumbai

I have some 400k delta skypesos and would like to go to asia next year. How should i use it well?

Any other 🐠 enjoying this HOT mess at JFK Skyclub? Is there some sort of bake sale on diamonds I missed?

Hey all, I left four shirts in the wardrobe of my room in a Sheraton. They’re saying they are not in lost and found but I am 100% sure they were in the room. One of the shirts has sentimental value...

Selling 4 AA System-wide upgrades. PM me if interested.

Is there an in-house Amazon creative department in Chicago or NYC? Which office makes the good brand commercials or are they made by agencies? Can’t find Amazon creative recruiters on LinkedIn.

Have you ever gotten yet another uninspiring brief and decided you’re just going to present work that interests you, even if it isn’t on brief? Like, you’ve just gone rogue? What happened.

Hi all,

I'm looking for job change currently in RPA Blue Prism Profile. Can anyone refer me in PwC?

Thanks in advance.

Hi fishes,

I have the following 2 offers..

Cognizant- 21L fixed and 1.5L variable
PWC - 22L fixed

This is for a guidewire role.
Which is a better offer? What would be a good option for growth wrt role, salary etc.
Also, PWC claims to offer variable based on their fixed CTC based on the ratings.. is this true ? How much is the avg percentage given?

Thanks in advance!

It's the year 2050. What headlines do we have in the news?

Dear Folks,

Can someone refer me into Microsoft, for Azure DevOps role. I have 5.5 YOE

Is current layoffs only happening in Amazon US offices or Amazon India offices as well ?

Gave notice to a partner this past Friday. The partner proceeded to curse me out and scream at the top of their lungs. What should I do other than obviously just walk away?

How much compensation should a 5.5 yrs experienced person ask in virtusa ?
Skill: ETL

Hello Fishes,

Can someone give me reviews about odessa technologies.

How company treats people.
Will it be good to join this company in a mid senior level with an experience of about 10 years.

Looking for an opportunity in Hyderabad. I am well proficient in Power BI, SQL and Excel. Please let me know if there is any openings.

After how many days after giving the L1 interview can I hear from Capgemini HR?

Why India is not part of APAC ABTC Card? We have strongest economy? But we are the only one in APAC which don’t have membership of ABTC Card.
This card allows you to travel without VISA to south asian countries.

Hi guys, has anyone ghosted a company on their joining date? What are the repurcussions, if any? Apart from bridges burnt.

How much CTC can ask 5.3 yr experience iOS developer

What is MBB?

I am looking for admin support / secretary like job, senior level market research job will also work for me. I want it in urgent basis. I want a package of 4 to 5 lacs per annum. I want in Navi Mumbai. Can anyone suggest me on this?

Hello guys

Had a salary discussion couple of days ago with Harman International for Sr. Consultant position. They offered me 16.5 lpa fixed. Now I regret I should have negotiated more

Is there anything I can do to increase salary? And how's 16.5 lpa at Harman for Sr. Cons position?

YOE- 3yr

Does Fractal Analytics offer onsite opportunity?

How much time does Accenture take to share the offer letter after HR initiates/rollut the offer ?

Hi fishes,

Can I switch to IT audits after having nearly 5 YOE in other tech field?

Thanks

Is it normal to ask monthly salary after every possible deduction?
Or what is the technical term and a better way to ask this when switching jobs?

Hi fishes,
Can you please tell me what to answer to the HR when asked " why are you resigning?"

When are you expecting offices to re-open?