How did you meet your spouse?

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

Love my boyfriend but embarrassed by him when he gets drunk... he always seems to be the drunkest person at happy hour when we go out w friends/starts slurring/eyes aren’t as focused. cant tell if I’m the one that’s being restrictive — does anyone else feel this way w their partner?

Can a relationship survive with two tops/bottoms? I met a guy I really liked but we are… on the same side

I just wanted to take a quick moment to say that you are all doing a great job with this ridiculous, unprecedented juggling act of trying to be a parent, teacher, lawyer and human. Hang in there!

Advice or Book recommendations on how not to get bothered by others/ friends/ peers? What they think or what they do!
Been struggling lately

Do you ever feel undatable thanks to how much we travel? If I'm only "home" 6 days a month, how can I possibly develop a relationship?

Sometimes I feel like I am a drone that just works all the time and I have no friends.

I've been avoiding breaking up with someone (I've been dating off and on for a year) for the past few weeks because I can't decide the best way to do it. We're not compatible long-term. He's not seeing anyone else and I've told him I'm seeing other people but he's starting to have relationship expectations for me since we reconnected a few months ago. Any tips for having the conversation? I'd prefer to do it via text but I know people say it's not appropriate and it should be over the phone.

Losing my self esteem and self confidence that I am not able to recognize humans. Anyone can come I my life , fool me and screw up my life, ruin it. Upset about why I’m emotional person.

What is the appropriate way to sympathize with relatives when their loved ones pass away. I never know what to say on the phone other than ask is everyone ok and I am sorry to hear their loss. Cont...

This is a question about friendships. Two friends got into a really bad fight this past weekend. They have each asked me to hang out this weekend. What do I do? I don’t want to have to choose sides. One is a friend I’ve known a little longer and has been a good friend and so she would feel betrayed and angry if she knew I were still friends with her now-enemy. The other I’ve known less longer, but we seem more compatible. Advice??

Anyone else struggling with hormones / mood swings? I am almost 16 weeks and been having a real tough time lately, feeling really down and stressed about things. Sadly, causing tension between me and my partner as well as he cannot relate and seems preoccupied with business as usual. Trying to get out the funk and just telling myself it’s all the hormones.

Tips for helping kids stay on task during zoom? Our little class (9 kids) has been doing zoom circle times twice a week but I noticed they are really distracted. Also every meeting a kid leave...

Married fish, when did you meet your spouse? Pre-career, when you were first starting out or when you were a bit more establish (at least a few years in)?

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

How can I approach my boyfriend who has an alcohol problem to help him get healthier ?

Anyone have to retake their NIPT test? My results came back as insufficient quantify and I’m freaking out. I’m 11.5 weeks. Not a high BMI or anything so I’m worried something is wrong with my baby

FT: Looking for an editorial designer with a background in illustration to work at a startup. About 2-4 experience. DM for details.

Sunday 4/19 FYIsland thread! Comment if you want visitors or want to explore new islands.

I hope this bowl doesnt become just another WSB 😭😭😭 All I see are 🚀 and GME 😭😭😭

How much are firms paying for Top Secret in referral bonuses?

Hi! Anyone successfully use Zoom or Teams to record interviews that will get spliced with other footage? Any best practices or pitfalls to avoid?

Biggest pet peeve:
When people working at Big 4 don't understand the basics of health data privacy.

I am an Indian CPA and pursuing my level 2 Cfa. I have worked with family office and Swf and have relocated to Vancouver. Any tips on where to begin my job search

I have a few LPs to cover where my stories are not solid before my loop on Monday. Feeling a little demotivated because I felt I had more time to prepare. Don't plan on asking for extension.

How did you motivate yourself to study and prep for the LPs? Tips...advice on what worked, thanks!

Anybody at the Westin Michigan Ave this week? Drinks?

When I have more salsa then I do chips, I always pour the crumbs in and eat it up Ethiopian food style

I have my first round scheduled in 2 days for data engineer role. HR told that first round would be of Data structure. Can you please tell me what could I prepare for it ?😓😓

Any job leads? Feel like I’m under paid, been working property and casualty for almost 5 years. Started an us position this year making only 49K. Barely can support myself honestly

Curious how many of you live outside of Austin but commute to work within the city? Or if you’re fully remote.

A tenth of the Strategy Practice at Accenture got laid off 😳 #HungerGames

Need 11 likes for dm. Pls help me out

Snowflake or Tosca Automation ?
Which technology is more good for the freshers currently to learn ? Pls suggest.

Selenium with python or selenium with Java ? Which one has more market value? Is testing a good field in IT?

Hi guys, has anyone ghosted a company on their joining date? What are the repurcussions, if any? Apart from bridges burnt.

I have been offered this by Google. Does this look promising?

YOE: 3
Current CTC: 29 LPA
Google CTC: 38 LPA
Position: Cloud Data Engineer
Location: Pune

PS. I think I am being lowballed by Google so trying to negotiate.

Hi what is the average salary of a Senior Internal Auditor in Chennai in Industry with 9 years experience? Most part of experience being in the middle east BFSI sector.

Hi Fishes,

Any idea about Hashmap Inc and Aris Global?
Which is better amongst these two?

Thanks in advance

Is it okay to share the screen of my ipad to solve coding questions like whiteboard for technical interviews. Or it is a bad sign and will get me rejected? 🫠

Hi all,

Anyone here worked or currently working at "Dunnhumby" , Please can you share your reviews about the company.

Thanks

Hello Fishes

I am looking to change my current organization.
Curr Organization - Capgemini
Exp- 7+ Yrs
Position - Team Lead Management Consultant Supply Planning
Curr CTC- 18 L
Exp CTC- 25 L

Please do let me know if you can help. I will be highly obliged.

Thanks

How much time does epam takes to give the results of interview?

Hi fishes,
Can you please tell me what to answer to the HR when asked " why are you resigning?"