My theory is that toxic bosses just have really bad imposter syndrome and are projecting their insecurities. Curious if anyone disagrees..I just need to make sense of this jerk partner!!

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One of my toxic bosses has imposter syndrome in the sense that even though he inherited daddy’s firm, he isn’t like his successful older brother (who also has his dad’s name.)

Another toxic boss is not self-aware. With that partner, he thinks he knows it all. He may be autistic, honestly, because he lacks social skills and says some unhinged, rude things, but doesn’t seem to understand how they come across.

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