My wife (43) just found out she is pregnant. It was definitely unexpected; we have one child from six IVF attempts years ago, and no ‘natural’ pregnancies in 13 years of marriage. I’m curious if others have had this experience about getting pregnant when older, after many years of not conceiving naturally?

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37 here. Had my first kid via IVF (he’s 3) and got pregnant with my now 6 month old unexpectedly. Started a new job too and told my manager no one was more surprised than me and my husband. Baby is healthy.

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Not firsthand but that happened with my cousin. They tried naturally and IVF but no success(I believe his wife had lupus). They ended up adopting 2 children over 4 years and then were surprised by having #3 naturally a few years later. I think they would have been in their mid/late-30s at the time.

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