Newly diagnosed with serve depression and it’s because of my work life for the most part. From being severely underpaid to being told I don’t know how to do my job. For a year and a half I’ve been being antagonized by my boss who’s main objective is to belittle me and make me feel as if I’m not good enough to be where I am. I ask for feedback outside of my department and inside and I’m told I’m doing great but they finds the littlest things to battle me on. Does Anyone advice for me? :/

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Sorry to hear, OP. GTFO of that toxic situation

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Step one: Leave your job!!! Why are you staying???

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That’s classic gaslighting. Sorry you’re going through this. I dealt with something similar and it threw me into a depression. Leaving changed everything for me. Took a couple months, but it changed. Mental health > job.

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