Returning from maternity leave and my size is all off. Like pants that fit over the butt are too tight at the waist. Also my waist is all flabby now (I’m not ashamed of my body, just facts).

I need to go into the office / work travel about once a week and feel like I need a few pieces to tide me through the next few months while my body adjusts. Any recommendations for work clothes that are forgiving on a fluctuating waist and chest, and not crazy expensive?

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Spanx supersmooth perfect fit ponte flare pants are awesome. Also Quince makes a quite impressive dupe and it comes in navy, I just got some.

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I used rent the runway for a few months to figure out my new body

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Can you stick with dresses and skirts?

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Wrap dresses and high waisted pleated skirts (tea length) with a blazer or cardigan should work too. Try options on at home (sit down in everything) to make sure it’s something you can wear for a long period of time comfortably. Maybe try renting clothes based on current sizes/ measurements so you have some options you feel good in.

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Also try a few tummy control pants. There are some good ones out there.

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Lululemon has come out with a lot of work pants that have an elastic waist band but look like a proper trouser. They are my current work obsession I’ve bought them in navy, tan and want to get them in chocolate next.

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Nygard slim luxe pant

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Rent the Runway!

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Yes! RTR was a lifesaver after coming back from maternity leave. Don’t rent by the item, the monthly membership is much more cost effective and there’s always a discount for your first month

https://www.renttherunway.com/shares/645a969fc108a0944bb98665d569defc6b6465a0-payPerSwap-publicLink-1742659552097

One thing that helped me with this was post pregnancy ab rehab programs. I did an online one. They are less like traditional exercise and have a lot of breathing elements. I didn’t realize how separated my abs were till I finished this and it made a HUGE difference with how clothes fit.

Also wanted to add that “universal standard” has a program that you can exchange sizes for some items (like classic colors and styles) for a year post buying even after wearing.

I would highly suggest shapewear, it may help you to wear what you already have and minimize the appearance of flab under clothing

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