Shot in the dark here - any women feel like grabbing a drink tonight in the UES? 33 M here.

Getting lonely in NYC! Trying to meet some fun and interesting women. DM me. 34 M🐠 here

May not be the right bowl but I need insights. Guy likes me and vice versa, was over at my place helping with something, had a huge erection but said or did nothing. I can’t figure out why..

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

Ladies - few girls in finance date guys in finance, even though each one of you are dating material. Top 2 things wrong with guys in finance? Be nice...

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

Considering dating apps—any insights?

Is it irrational for me to get an “ick” for this?

I went on a “date” recently. I paid for the tab as they were going to the bathroom. As we were leaving they said “thanks for lunch” — I was hoping they’d at least ask to Venmo me half as a kind gesture. Following lunch we grabbed dessert. I was hoping they’d offer to cover dessert since I covered lunch but it didn’t happen.

I am fine w/ paying but I was hoping the gesture would at least be presented… am I crazy?

I went through my gf’s phone and found out she had a crush on my best friend when we first started dating (over a year ago). I suspected this at first but it hurts to have it confirmed and see her telling her friends about him. I’m not sure how I should feel since I went out of line to look through her phone.

Any F 🐠 in Santa Monica?

30M in Indianapolis open to chatting

I went on ONE date with a guy that lives next door months ago. He told me he eats out every night and tips his doordahers poorly. That was a red flag, so I never talked to him again. Anyhoo, I bumped into him tonight, and he cussed me out so bad at a CVS. I’m confused as to what I did wrong?

Serious question: When taking a girl out on a date - do you guys usually split the tab or is it more common to pick up the tab as the guy? I know it varies person to person but curious what the general consensus here is. Input from women and men appreciated!

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

Good outdoor date ideas?

Any single f wants to connect?

Who wants to go boating with me some time?

Has anyone tried any paid dating apps? (Match, eHarmony, paid features on Hinge etc.) and is it worth it?

I’m hoping to steer clear of any scams by posting & I know it’s been posted before but, again, scams. Anyway, I am looking for something that can be done remotely on nights and weekends after I get home from my daily in-office job. My sister passed away & I’m now helping raise her kids. With Christmas coming, I’m nervous and dreading the season not only to not have her but will I make it a happy one for the kids. I need extra income but need to be home with them in the evenings.

Hey guys,

I have an interview at Microsoft next week for the role of SharePoint consultant. What should my preparation be like?

Hi All,
Hope u all are doing well,
Just wanted to know How @hitachiVantara
Pro/Cons ?

I have offers from Capgemeni, LTI and Gartner, Yoe - 7. Which one should I choose ?

Started my new job today! I’m joining a late stage startup coming from a more mature company, and am noticing a lotttt of documentation debt. I’m coming in as Staff/Lead, and want to eventually move into management in 1-4 years. If I spend some of my first two week block updating and creating documentation for future devs, will that be seen as working hard or wasting time? It feels like a good use of my time to me….

Which do you fear more: covid or recession?

Just MD things: putting the entire email ask in the subject line, and writing “see title” in the body. Signed with “sent using Apple Watch”. 🙄

Happy Halloween! Who says Financial Professionals are not creative? Share what you dressed up as for work today?

I hope my manager rotten in hell!!!!😡😡😡

How soon until we all take jobs at consultancies?

Just spent 15 minutes buying a flight on the jet blue app... is there software really that slow?

How are the salary hikes at nagarro? I heard the hikes has decreased! If yes what can I expect after a year? I am 4 year experienced

I have a question, I got a contract role through a recruiter. Initially the recruiter offered the hourly pay rate which was the minimum in my range. Now I got an offer from the company. Now without me asking her she increased the hourly wage to the maximum range I asked. Which makes me doubt if the company increased it or she knew the rate all along but gave me the lower rate ?

I have an offer IQVIA and VFISLK offers @ 15lpa each.

YOE: 3.5
skill : Mainframe developer

Please provide your thoughts to help me decide which company to join taking career growth in perspective.

Looking to set up monthly automatic buys into the following:

VTI -40%
VOO - 30%
QQQ - 20%
VWO - 10%

Would be longterm holds. Is there too much overlap here?

Relatively new to this so any suggestions for alternatives or different percentage allocations would be a huge help

How many days in a week are you visiting office?

Any ladies up for a drink this weekend?. Have the next 5 days off from work. 33 M

Damn! Why's it so silent in here 😅 35M NYC

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

Anyone up for watching the Euro 2020 finals this Sunday? M30

How's everyone doing this weekend?

Single 30M working at a tech firm.
I would love to buy shoes for a few ladies

Looking for a running buddy in the city. DM me for deetz!

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

Who does like a strong espresso?

Hey Fishes, looking for safe quiet places for a single person which are quiet but within ~45 min to times square area?

Would you marry someone that’s unemployed or doesn’t want to work? What’s the minimum salary you can accept from your SO ?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

How about everyone plan a get together on a weekend in a bar know each other and build this community?

Any Female fish want to grab brunch and watch the Masters this weekend

29 M. Any F to join me for Halloween themed bars for a drink?

Meet up Announcement: start your Labor Day weekend off right! Tomorrow, 9/4 @ 5:30PM. Heckscher Playground. Comment if you want to be added to the group!

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

So many people live in NYC but still it feels like the loneliness place on the planet. Does anybody have positive stories from dating apps? How do you guys meet ppl in general?

@guys, is it weird if a girl you don’t know DMs you and says she came across your profile on Hinge/thinks you’re cute? Is that creepy?

Context: I swiped right on a guy but he hasn’t matched with me so not sure if he X me out or just hasn’t checked the app (it’s been 2 days)

Any single F looking to get dinner or drinks today evening? 35 M here.