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Rising Star
Welcome to the life of women everywhere
Jesus Christ. People need to get over nipples. Everyone has them. The people who are uncomfortable are the ones that need to deal with their own issues.
Enthusiast
Omg!!! If she was distracted by your nipples then SHE has the issue not you. Tell HR that you feel sexualized and would like to lodge a counter complaint.
This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
I'm female btw.
I was going to say the same thing - turn it around and say that after thinking about it, you feel victimized by her specializing you. That is so absurd (F here).
Pro
She's distressed??? I am mortified and distressed. HR tell me that I absolutely should not confront her orr retaliate against her... I'm like this cannot be serious and why would I retaliate, surely HR corrected her that I didn't do anything wrong. I was just wearing a normal polo, right? No. They tell me she felt threatened and distracted by my nipples.
Threatened and distracted? What planet do you work on?
Not to laugh at your pain, but I’m deceased 🤣🤣🤣
But your female coworker needs to chill. We all have nipples. Can’t imagine what she’d do if she witnessed a boner 🤷🏻♀️
Working from home!
As a woman who doesn't wear a bra.... This is ridiculous. What are you gonna do? Leave your nipples at home? Put on your work nipples?
We need detachable nipples, stat
(This is a sentence I never thought I'd need to type)
Enthusiast
OP: pics of you in the offending polo shirt bruh.
Enthusiast
Oh yes, need to see
Pro
I’m dead. It’s so rare that I’ve had people report men for dress code violations and that the first I’ve ever heard of that complaint from men. But honestly, that happens to women too frequently. Maybe you need nip covers? 😂💀
PA1, what about hair? We should cover that as well... Some people see hair as a fetish. So everyone should cover true heads, faces, legs, arms, hands...
This lady, when she goes to any beach and realize beach doesn't have HR to report all the shirtless guys with nipples
Uh oh
Chief
I got a tip for you!
Rising Star
Finally! I couldn't believe that this comment went 5 minutes let alone 5 days before someone said this.
Pro
👀
Put in your notice and then wear this for your final two weeks
Yesterday, I asked in a womens bowl how we felt about hard nips at the office and one person said when she sees a woman with hard nipples, she thinks the woman is intentionally seeking attention.
Pro
Upvote AM1, the gym. The gym I go to has a lot of gay guys and I think a lot of women choose so they can workout undisturbed and, yeah, nips tend to be visible in workout clothing especially because of the exercise. Happens to guys too. Mine are definitely more visible in workout shirts and the gym.
In another part of the thread there were posts about nip pads, covers, protectors... when I used to run a lot I needed those to prevent chafing. On a long run, those little buds would get pretty irritated
The “polo”:
Chief
It’s Pride. It should be allowed. 🌈🥳
Enthusiast
This reads like an apocalyptic future type novel 😵💫😵💫😵💫 and they’re considering interviewing more ppl to assess the psychological damage your nipples inflicted?!
Pro
Maybe the next David Cronenberg movie
Is this for real? Imagine the situation reversed and a male employee complained to HR about what their female coworker was wearing.... Wtf
Rising Star
SDPM, picture proof?
The old-fashioned dress code for men requires an undershirt under a shirt to avoid nipple showing, does it not? If women have to wear bras to the office, I take it as a fair expectation to expect nipples from any gender to not be visible
Generally, I like no bras and do not mind nipples, but I also like an office environment that is equal for all
Enthusiast
My husband wears tank top style undershirts (idk what the correct term for them is) under polos and it looks quite nice. Agree w MC2 above re the dress code for men.
Conversation Starter
Wait is this real?
Pro
Real
This is my brand of equality. Make men wear pasties!
Complain to HR that the complainer is objectifying you by staring at your nipples and creating an uncomfortable work environment
Enthusiast
That is what I was thinking! What's next...the bulge in his pants is offending me? 😀
Sounds actionable. Hostile work environment. Pattern and practice of sex- based harassment. Best thing to do would be to send office wide email castigating management