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I’d rather quit than revise this agreement.
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I’d rather quit than revise this agreement.
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Mentor
In the words of my former mentor “you’ve already won”
Community Builder
Don’t lump everyone in together at your former firm - maintain good relationships and build your network.
Coach
Tbh it won’t have the impact you’re looking for
Mentor
You can, but that doesn’t mean you should.
Don’t burn that bridge no matter how much you want to. Sounds good in theory but might come back to bite you in the butt somewhere down the line when you least expect it.
Mentor
Nope. Wasting your energy being vindictive is letting them win and doing nothing positive for your physical, mental, and spiritual health big picture. You are spending way too much time thinking about people who probably don’t think about you much at all.
It’s a sign of personal strength and higher emotional intelligence to move on; that’s absolutely not being a “bootlicker”. I also believe in staying on the right side of karma, personally.
Plus, as mentioned previously, what you are suggesting doing with this email is not going to get you the satisfaction that you want. It makes you sound petty and immature.
Only to say congratulations
Do you know how long you will last at the new firm? Don't do it.
They are probably already snooping where you are heading and will find out.
I thought about this too—I just think if we thought like this, we’d never be proud of ourselves in the moment. Anyways this firm seems pretty decent with a good culture
Coach
I would consult with a plaintiff-side employment attorney and then do as they advise.
It’s usually better to say less publicly and to work out the issues behind the scenes.
Mentor
These questions are so odd to me. I’ve been in practice in NYC Biglaw and midlaw for over 20 years and it used to be that everyone (unless they were fired immediately for something sketchy and walked out of the building) would send a farewell email that most often followed a script like:
“As most of you already know, today is my last day with the firm. I want to thank XYZ plus some other nicety about colleagues/the dept/firm etc, be it true or not.
As of XYZ date I will be joining FIRM /COMPANY. I look forward to staying touch, here is my contact information.”
When did the paranoia begin about telling people where you are going? Everyone is going to find out eventually anyway. One person in this bowl mentioned that leaving without a farewell email or telling anyone where you are going was to avoid awkward conversations, and, if that’s true, it’s a sad commentary on the way humans are evolving in terms of interpersonal communication.
Mentor
FTR- I’ve seen/heard the phrase “band 1” more in your original post and comments than I have in over 20 years of practice. If you put that in writing in a farewell email, people will remember you as a jerk and a clout-chaser vs being envious that you moved on to a better place and achieved something that you think that they can’t.