Stress test this for me: I’m in PE m&a at a known sweatshop. I’ve been seeing this girl for about 6 months, she is a VP at a bank. Weird to bring her to a firm event? For context, things are not great right now. I’m a mid level, but all the partners who supported me left and there is another partner who hates me.

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Take a Xanax. You’re fine. Live your life,

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>she is a VP at a bank

Her and about 50,000 other slightly above entry level bankers lol

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Weird that you gave that much detail

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Retake and reapply

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What is this reply?

Move to a better firm, marry your gf and let her be a housewife. You will both be happier.

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This must be rage bait but okay.

You have no idea if that girlfriend likes her career or not. I doubt that the majority of women go through the trouble of studying and working to then stay at home. You also do not know if OP wants to be the only one with a job.

And for the record: if that is what they want, excellent plan.

Lastly, OP asked about a firm function and not his life planning.

Is she staff of a firm client? Do people usually bring their significant others?

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