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I’m friends with a few people here — it’s purely platonic. We chat every day, but I’m not trying to make anything more out of it.
They can be friends until an opportunity presents itself.
Pro
This is correct.
Definitely. I’m married and have plenty of smoking hot female friends. I find them attractive but am not attracted to them personally
From a man’s perspective, there’s something fun and liberating about interacting with someone you “should” have an instinct to pursue but 0% want to. It’s tough to put into words but I find myself at some of my most relaxed and genuine when I hang out with my female friends. More emotional honestly, less weird silent competitiveness, and I’ve learned a lot about women from those friends that I then take home and apply to my marriage.
It’s weird and sad to me when people are like “out of respect for my wife I don’t have female friends.” It’s like saying out of respect to your butcher you don’t eat vegetables
Dang…busted 😏
Pro
I have several opposite sex friends that I would call for advice or help but have zero interest in anything more and nothing has happened
Yes and yes. We are two different journeys in life
I even found people flirt at work, not just two, but on a larger scale. Of course you can just say people are overly friendly to attractive colleagues too. But we can’t change the culture