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As a Christian male, I can say that one major reason for the lack of commitment comes from having sex before getting married. I realize it’s old fashioned and probably controversial to say, but it’s a strong motivator for men especially. Once sex is no longer in marriage only, then a man has less motivation to commit - because he’s got what he seeks. P**n takes motivation from men too, especially among Gen Z I’m told.
Many other factors - including cultural emasculating of men - but this is the elephant in the room from my perspective.
It’s not to say that “chaste” people don’t entirely lack commitment either, but I’d wager it’s far less prevalent. On the whole (though certainly not without exceptions on both sides), Women desire commitment and security and men desire sex and esteem.
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Pretty obvious, isn't it?
The bottom 90% of men are effectively invisible to women, and the top 10% have many options, so they don't feel a need to commit.
Thankfully I'm married, so it's not my problem.
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