The struggle is real! How do you handle dating when your work schedule is all over the place?

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It’s not easy, but I’ll sometimes mix work and social stuff—like inviting someone to a work event or grabbing a quick coffee during a break.

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My dating life is pretty much non-existent. I suppose if I found someone with as crazy of a schedule as me that might work but that is probably the only way it would work. Sometimes I feel like I have to choose between my career or dating which sucks because my career wins every time.

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