Think my FET failed because I got a BFN on 6dp5dt using a FRER. This sucks. So sad to think that my best embryo is gone.

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Don’t get too hung up on the “best embryo” label, either. My beautiful, healthy 9 month old was our third attempt, with two “better” embryos before her failing. Good luck ❤️

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Same for me! Our lowest “grade” was our 3rd transfer and the only one that implanted.

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Same here! 3rd embryo is a healthy and beautiful baby now. after 2 successfully implanted but miscarried. Also!!! Is too early to test. Don’t do it. Wait.

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I’ve been there and had those negatives but I also know 6 days is very early. Keep doing what you’re supposed to and hold hope for your beta.

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It’s way too early - wait for your beta

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Negatives hurt, but are usually a part of the process. We got our baby after one failed fresh transfer and one failed FET. With our second FET we transferred two embryos and had a healthy singleton pregnancy. Best wishes on your journey

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I don’t think I did. Also, if it does fail - give yourself some grace. The adjustment your body is going through with coming off all the hormones is a bit intense. Well wishes

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Thank you so much!

Thanks all! For those of you who had a failed FET, did you start bleeding at all before you stopped meds? I had a tiny bit of pink spotting the night of 7dp5dt, which seemed a little odd since I am on PIO and estrogen pills, but maybe my body is readying itself for a period anyway.

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