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Also try to find mommy friends (with babies the same age) if you don’t have some already, it does help to talk to someone who’s going through it at the same time as you. I found a few amazing ones who I’m still friends with 7 years later.
Omg I can relate! That’s how I felt and I found them. It’s like dating, you gotta get out there haha Nowadays there’s an app called Peanut that helps you find mom friends in your area. You can try that. Also, check out a lot of different types of baby classes in your area.
It was hard for me to comprehend how difficult it would be taking care of an infant until I was in the thick of it. I had ALL the issues with my first: stomach issues, major breastfeeding issues that led to him almost being hospitalized for dehydration, getting him to nap, getting him to sleep, needing a helmet and PT.
It’s exhausting. We understand.
Oh you poor thing. It’s so hard. But please know that most people out the eye simply do not hear or notice your baby crying like you do! Or they understand! There is empathy all around so do not spend one single second more worrying about what anyone on the train thinks.
Take care of yourself, and do your best, just get through it however you can and it WILL pass. You are not having your child and you are not a bad mom. You are just in a sticky spot and we all have those days!
My son went through this too- he hated being on his back. Luckily it’s a phase and it too shall pass ❤️
I wish I could give you a hug! It gets better I promise! The first few months are brutal! The lack of sleep, everything is hard! Just hang in there!
Everyone struggles. I found that some moms give the impression they have their shit together but are struggling inside. I was lucky to find moms that were very honest and shared my struggles. I had a difficult baby and I felt like a total failure. But it all got better with time. Join mommy FB groups in your area and try to meet a lot of moms and find your tribe. Trust me, there’s someone out there who can relate. Post honestly about your struggles and you’ll find them. Having a baby is a very isolating time so it’s important to have someone to talk to.
Hugs 🤗 I feel this - it’s so hard when your child hates to be on their back. Know that it’s ok to do your best and still feel like your failing. IMO it does get a lot better x
Sadly this is very relatable. I felt like this too but it definitely got a lot easier when my son was a few months older and we joined a nanny-share
Sending hugs! It’s so hard, specially with the stress of your husband going back. Just keep reaching out and venting here.
Also, not sure if you’re also looking for advice (so keep scrolling if you aren’t) but if you haven’t already, maybe check with your dr about the resistance to lay flat. It may be reflux or an ear infection. Also, maybe try a baby carrier?
You’ve got this, good luck!
Awwww hugs it gets better this will be a memory 🥰🙏🏽
Hugs. The first few months of new motherhood are the hardest. The only thing that helped me through it was finding some
Mom friends in the exact same boat through a postpartum exercise group. It can be lonely but will say this makes other new moms some of the easiest friends to make!
Try a pouch strapped to you! My kids hated strollers too.
This shit is hard, it’s insanely hard.
On it!
If you’re in nyc dm me! I felt the same way on mat leave and found some good resources
And give yourself credit…you were pregnant, gave birth, are raising your baby during the pandemic. It’s been a stressful and difficult time for everyone but I can’t imagine being pregnant on top of it. You gotta remind yourself you’re a badass for doing that! Also, check with your doctor about postpartum depression. I think I had it then but didn’t know so I didn’t get help. I wish I had. It would have made things easier.
I’m so grateful that I have a bunch of resources to keep checking in on me in that regard. I don’t feel blue, and have enjoyed motherhood much more than I had even expected to.
It’s just the occasional day. I’d say like twice a month there is a total Chaos Day and I write off the whole day.
I feel this so hard. Especially the nervous sweating in public. The overstimulation is almost unbearable. My mantra then (and now, with a 2yo) is “this part is temporary, this part is temporary”.
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