Pregnant with my third child now and wondering what is the right time to tell work. I did it really early with my first two because I wanted to plan ahead, but now thinking about it, I feel like it just set me up for failure those years because I was reassigned from tasks and kept underutilized.

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20 weeks is what I usually do.

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That is what I was thinking and would still leave enough time to plan.

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yeah, sounds right, not only to employer but to the world it seems safer to wait 20 weeks

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