What did y’all actually want to be when you grew up?

Which do you recommend to get the most wear? Hermès 90 scarf, 18mm H belt, or Clic H bracelet? Deciding on my first Hermès and need help! Open to other suggestions in that $400-650 price range.

I have two offer in hand.
1.Technical Product Support Engineer at Algonomy (Manthan & Richrelevance)
2.Informatica Admin at Royal Bank of Scotland

Which one I should choose, I have started my career in Product support role and have 5 yrs of experience.

Minshew, Ben, or Burrow as QB going forward?

Hi All,Can anyone help me in this situation.I had cleared tech assessment, tech interview and then I got a mail for HR round where I had the compensation discussion and was informed to upload the doc and further told to wait for the offer letter.But after that I got the technical assessment link and status is showing as interviewing .I tried reaching out to all the hr through mail and calls but none of them are responding.Can anyone guide me or help me with any senior person from Accenture hr dept who can help me

Hi folks,
I have recently joined capgemini.
Is it worth opting for bus pass if we're working in hybrid mode? Bcoz i think any way if we opt for, the company will deduct whole month specific amount under conveyance allowance.

Hi Everyone,

Can someone refer me?
Tech Stack - .NET, Angular, AWS
YOE - 2.9 years
NP - 90 days.

Thanks in Advance!

Hi fishes,
Can someone please suggest some study materials for proficiency assessment in functional test planning?

Guys how's the WLB at wibmo bangalore. What are the non-monetary perks?

Does Canada Goose on men look tacky/metrosexual? Can’t decide

Pharmacy: there’s a national adderall shortage, we can’t fill your prescription. We also can’t tell you, person who struggles w executive function, which of our hundreds of other locations have it in stock. You’ll just have to call around to every location til you find it. And then you’ll have to call your doctor and have them send a new prescription over because we can’t transfer a controlled substance stance. Good luck!

It’s like they don’t understand why we need the meds in the first place.

Third month at big law firm coming from two smaller firms and truly faking it til I hopefully make it 😕 - rising fourth year

Anyone here get Keratin hair treatments/have a salon rec that wouldn’t be too pricey?? For the record I have long 3c hair that’s quite thick as well

Hello all.

Is, Faking experience common in IT industry when we want to switch to a completely different Technology Stack?

Currently I am working as a SAP HANA Consultant with 4 YOE, but wish to switch to a Data Science profile. I already have knowledge on different skills required for a role of Data Scientist.

Are jeans business casual? Dark and no holes

Has anyone utilized the social cryopreservation benefit at Deloitte? Want to confirm how expenses were reimbursed.
(1-800 deloitte was completely unhelpful and ignorant about the program)

Hi guys can we leave Virtusa in a day? I have got a better offer? Also how is Google account for wlb?

Do you feel like your sex drive went down after working in PA?

I'm on Fishbowl drinking a fishbowl. 😎🍹

How do i direct message someone

Anyone here willing to share their firsthand experience of searching for and selecting a therapist? My wife was kind enough to vet a few through our church and her friends, but wondering if I might find a better fit with a therapist who specializes in working with lawyers or small business owners.

Any 🐠 here with fibromyalgia that have managed to deal with sudden flare ups impacting timeline of return of deliverables? Yesterday and today have been complete washes due to first, all over body pain and today, added brain fog and extreme fatigue. I can’t think, can barely lift a pinky. I have items that I expected to get out but are now taking longer and not getting the focus I’d usually bring. Has FM interrupted your schedule before and how did you deal with it?

If you’re reading this, go drink some water!

Is anyone else experiencing a new wave of covid anxiety due to the stress of figuring out the holidays? Got in an argument with a family member about safety guidelines and testing needing to happen and I’ve been feeling paralyzed by anxiety all day.

I've been working from home for the last six months and had this constant urge to eat treats I find anywhere around the house. My two daughters find it humorous, but it has rarely made me feel good. Kindly, what can I do to stop?

When covid first hit, I was delighted to be working from home. My hours even improved. Now, because of some triggering events, I’m dealing with horrible panic attacks on the daily. I’m dissociating and can’t focus long enough to get work done. I JUST hit a year at this firm and am going on a one month stress leave. Worried I might not kick this mental state in that time. Any advice as to what I can do while on leave so I can come back focused and ready to work?

Gripe- there is no room for a sick day in this profession. Big closing coming up. Have a bad cold. Have billed 40+ hours in the last 3 days.

Why do lawyers celebrate a culture of poor health?

Does anyone have any experience working with a Life Coach/Therapist to help in this industry and just overall? I realize I get in my own way by overthinking and I have trouble executing. Also realizing I doubt myself/ability, so it subconsciously holds me back from implementing things I want to do/achieve. Any recommendation(s) is greatly appreciated!

I’ve been working to an unhealthy degree lately. And I’ve been making the excuse that I have a lot of work right now, but I’m starting to wonder if I’m addicted to it. Part of it is anxiety and perfectionism. But my behavior is now actively harmful to myself and starting to harm my marriage.

How do I stop? I’m not talking work-life balance. I mean, how do I say, “I don’t care that the client wants this tomorrow and I’m not close to done, I’m going to sleep tonight”?

I’ve been struggling with finding the right antidepressant. I started a few months ago but had really bad side effects and stopped (headaches, lethargy, nausea, inability to concentrate). The withdrawal is just as bad. I’ve noticed that I made mistakes when my mind was in a haze and just can’t seem to work. I think I need to find an antidepressant that works for me but I’m nervous it’s going to make work that much harder. Do I tell someone at my firm? If so, how?

question of the day: why did you join this bowl? Since I asked, I will start: I’ve been on a journey of recovery from legal-overachiever-workaholism. Changed jobs, city and environment and still working hard to recover from burnout that is, unfortunately, part and parcel of the legal profession.

Does anyone have any advise when it comes to navigating getting help and your firm. I had a tough month mentally. But I reached out to my local bar’s LAP. I’m starting the process of seeing a therapist. But my dreads still here. I’m panicking about being short on hours, falling behind on my cases and explaining to my boss I know I’m behind at work but I am working on it. Any advise will be greatly appreciated.

How should I approach an ominous zoom appointment with supervisinpartner and managing partner? I’m a 3rd year associate. This is a new job, my first day was the first day the whole firm worked from home. It’s also much more challenging and demanding than my previous firm, which is what I wanted, but I haven’t been able to dive in and face the challenge the way I had planned to because I’m really struggling with working from home, both logistically and psychologically....

Wish apps like BetterHelp were free. I can’t afford healthcare or therapy (I’m unemployed, and yes, I’ve tried seeking pro bono therapy options — no place anywhere nearby offers it.) I really need a therapist I can talk to on at least a weekly basis to just unpack so much that’s bogging me down to the point of being unable to function some days, but it’s just so cost prohibitive! What sucks is everyone assumes this career hands you median wages on a platter but I’m worse off than I’ve ever been.

Is it me or does depression in big law mostly affect single overworked women around age 30?

Burnout: cyclical and becomes so debilitating that I find myself unable to do simple every day tasks. How often do you burnout? What does it entail for you?

When I was going into courtrooms, a bad night of sleep didn’t matter-I’d snap to attention as soon as I got into court. I’m doing phone hearings now and the focus isn’t there as much. Any ideas?

What is the correct course of action when you find out (secondhand from their spouse) that co-counsel has dementia but refuses to discuss it or withdraw from your case, and is not returning calls? Can't tell client because no proof therefore could be disparaging co-counsel.

Reminder to everyone: use your 2021 vacation time. Don’t let it pass you by just because you’re not traveling. Take a long weekend once a month to nap and eat chips in sweat pants all day. We all need to do our part to normalize self care, and sitting at home doing “nothing” is just as worthy of a vacation day as pina coladas on the beach.