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In hibernation maybe?

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I’m here!

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I hope so.

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Does anyone else feel like this: I work like I’m in a frenzy all week, cortisol pumping. Now (I’m lucky I know) I have three days off and feel like doing absolutely nothing. I need to clean, run errands, thought I wanted to spend time with friends but I spent yesterday going to the pharmacy and in bed. Is this burnout or is this depression or am I just lazy.

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Enjoy your rest as well. I’ve been getting advice that the work will always be there and to take a little time to do something for yourself every day. Definitely trying to take some of that advice.

I think this bowl is a goner…🙁

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