Is anyone else experiencing a new wave of covid anxiety due to the stress of figuring out the holidays? Got in an argument with a family member about safety guidelines and testing needing to happen and I’ve been feeling paralyzed by anxiety all day.

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Yes same with me. I am from Canada and realized I may not be able to go home for the holidays. I’ve been feeling so much anxiety about COVID since I have no idea when it will end and when I can see my family again.

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I dunno if it’s holiday related, the time of year, the sociopolitical climate, or what... but this has felt a lot harder in the last 6 weeks.

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