What do I do to my manager who is really condescending?

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Request to be rolled off - ultimate power move

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I did this while also being prepared to leave if they declined my request.

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Get a new job somewhere else with a raise

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I did this and ironically, my condescending mgr backed down once I handed in my notice

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That's a situation you just have to navigate as things come along. Respond politely but forcefully, and stand your ground. Some managers just like to nitpick or bully to get under your skin. If you show some backbone they'll usually back down and knock off the attitude.

Sorry you have to deal with that. In what way is your manager condescending? It will help us decide you could do next.

I mean there isn't a lot you can do except find a new job or learn to live with it. you could go to their manager but saying someone is condescending can be seen as subjective so I just don't know how that would go over. You know what i mean?

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