What’s the biggest red flag you ignored?

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It's her saying I usually don't give it up on first date but here is my body

A guy who wouldn't stop tickling me when I asked him to stop.

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I effing hate this too.

Alabama

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Constant lies

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“Recovered” former alcoholic, who controlled whether I myself was able to enjoy a drink or not. Claimed I couldn’t have any alcohol on my breath or in their presence — but they were “recovered”.

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😅🫠😮‍💨

Narcissism

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Someone who took a vacation (when she had very little time for me, her then fiancee) with a "guy friend", and was angry that I had an issue with it. After a conversation full gas lighting, minimalizing, blame shifting, and lying boldly (Note: if someone lies to your face, it is disrespect and no relationship can be built on disrespect) to my face, I cut sling load and continued my mission.

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Biggest red - I would go for China 🇨🇳

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My ex’s mind

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