Would you leave a job after 3 months for a $20K raise? I just started a new role a few months ago—it’s fine, not amazing, but stable. Now I’ve been offered another position that pays $20K more and is closer to home. I feel guilty even considering it, but it’s hard to ignore the difference in pay and commute. Has anyone made a jump this soon? Did it hurt your reputation or career long-term?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

$20K and a shorter commute is significant. I’d say if the new role feels like a better fit overall, take it. Loyalty is great, but so is taking care of your future.

like

I understand your feelings, but this seems like it will impact your life significantly. Take the new job. You don't have to have any loyalty to a company that would most likely have no problem laying you off as soon as they needed to.

like

Agree with the first two respondents. I was loyal to my company for many years, bent over backwards to the detriment of my own health, and then they kicked me and a few other hard working people to the curb when it suited them. Taught me a lesson. Loyalty does not pay. Even if after 3 months at the other job, take it. And if you want to leave on good terms, lie and say you have a health issue or a family member in another state needs assistance (and that it doesn't fit within FMLA), or that you need to move or whatever. And then don't update your LinkedIn info with the new job for a few months. And if later you get called out on it, say that circumstances in your family changed or something after you left, so it got resolved, and then you felt bad about leaving them in the lurch and so you didn't reach out to get your last role back/figured they had already filled it, and so you found another job, bla bla bla. But I doubt you would need to get that elaborate, that they would even care. Take the other job, please!

like

TAKE IT!!! I was in the exact same situation years ago and felt so guilty leaving after only 2 months, but looking back, it was the best decision I could have made, not just for pay but also for my career.

like

I’d say you can do this once, but don’t make a habit of it. You definitely don’t wanna look unstable on your resume, but if you do it once it’s not the end of the world. And for you, it’s easy to explain because it’s closer to home too.

Also… whether $20k is worth it or not is all relative. It all depends. For example, if you’re making like $300k then maybe $20k more really isn’t a big deal. But if you’re making like $70k-90k, that extra $20k could make a significant difference for you.

like

Related Posts

Hi IBMers
What is role of a senior advisory consultant. Is it similar to solution architect

like

We’re having a destination wedding and I feel selfish/silly for taking a honeymoon after. But I feel like if we don’t do it then we will put it off and it won’t really feel like a “honeymoon”. What would you do?

like

Hello Folks, It’s been 2 weeks after receiving LOI and I did not get my offer letter from Amex. Should I wait?

like

How’s the freelance producer market doing these days? Busy, slow?

like

I got offers from top consulting firms in Berlin and Amsterdam. Any ideas what factors to consider in my decision?

likehelpful

What is happening at Accenture... are recruiters being fired?

likefunny

I’m maxing out my 401K, traditional IRA and HSA this year and paying for some house improvements. I have about $750K total investments and very close to $2M net worth, but realize that I am behind on investments if I want to do FIRE. I was focused on paying off huge chunks of my mortgage and managed to whittle it down to $75K left. Would you suggest I go ahead and pay that off this year? Or pause and do a mega back door roth instead? I’m mid 40s. Thanks!

like

Have 50k in brokerage to put towards buying a place in Atlanta. Young 20 something who's lease is ending soon

Roth IRA and 401k are well funded but don't want to pull from there.

Should I buy and rent the extra bedrooms to friends, or stay renting and put savings in stock market?

like

Best long term investment strategy against inflation to get to a large nest in for retirement?

like

I am looking for associate consultant profile in HCL. Can any one refer me to similar profiles in HCL.

like

Is it easier to go from McK to BCG or Deloitte to BCG? If one is easier, how much easier? And do BCG recruiters ever poach from McK or is that a big no-no?

like
like

Always got to find the sunshine!

Post Photo
likeuplifting

Dear fishes, I am having a PwC managerial round. What type of questions should I expect ? YOE : 3, Tech : SAP PP QM

PwC

like

This platform has serious bug... Something fishy in it... Someday they may released buggy app and reveal our identity...

like

Hi ,
Can some one please refer me ?
I have experience in automation Testing .
YOE-2.1 LWD-4th October

like

Hi Everyone,

Hope you all are doing well. I'm shifting to Pune next month. My office location is in Platinum Tech Park, Panchshil, Ganeshkind Rd. Pune 411005.

I just wanted to enquire about how is the are aroud that place? Is the area happening or it's in outskirts? Any 1 bhk available nearby that location.

Any constructive suggestion/discussion is appreciated 😊

like

Hi all, I have about 7 years of professional experience but only one year as a Customer Success Manager. I work on mid market accounts currently. I love my job, but would prefer to support a more robust platform that will allow me to add more value for my customers.

I’d appreciate your thoughts on what compensation you might expect for a CSM transitioning to a new company with one year of experience.

To clarify, I don’t have an offer yet, I’m just looking to make a move.

Thank you!

like
like

What would you say is the minimum amount of money that your household would have to make before considering to have two babies?

like

Additional Posts in Salary & Compensation

Is PwC transparent with employees about salary ranges? Do all jobs in the same level had the same range, or are there even rankings within the level? Anyone know what a Senior Manager salary range would be? I think they’re going to try and lowball me with an offer.

like

How much is “market” comp for a 5th year, general civil lit, AmLaw 200 defense firm with usual benefits (health, dental, 401k match up to 6%). I’m LA based. TIA

like

hiya fishes. happy friday! sorry if this isnt the right bowl, but this is in regards to vacation time. i have an interview process starting next week, and wondering when it would be good to mention i would be OOO between the middle of the month in september? its for a week. im unsure if i can twist this to have a start date once im back. going back and forth on being transparent vs. mentioning it later on. thoughts?

Midwest folks outside of Chicago!!! What is your industry, role, and salary?

like

190k TC in Los Angeles or 160k TC in Chicago. Same role and both are 50% remote. Which would you choose?

likehelpful

I asked for a raise in April 2022 after three years with my company. Positive feedback since day one. Learned I was making less than peers at other asset managers in NYC with less experience (14 years). Latest conversation was with HR about how they calculate salaries. I’ve been asked to provide examples how my role has changed since I started to justify the increase. Is this normal? Or is this just their way of denying my request?

like

Any California workers comp adjusters on here? How much are you getting paid and what company? How many years of experience do you have? Im trying to get a gauge for the market value. Thanks

like

Recently got an offer for 80k at Morgan Stanley as a customer service associate. Can anyone provide some insight on where this offer lands (high low) in the entry level/csa marketplace? Located in a major city

like

I'm interested interviewing for a position that was advertised as DOE. I understand this means depending on experience, but is there a range I should ask for? If they ask my desired salary, do I tell them? I haven't interviewed for a position like this before.

like

3 YOE in Marketing through internships in college, followed by 2 years Financial Operations/Data Tools full-time. I got an offer for $75K at TekSystems for a Market Analyst role. I gave them a range of $70-75K, so they gave the max. But I am questioning asking for a bit more given insurance is apparently on the higher-end and I want to ensure I didn't low-ball myself.

Just to note, this is about a 25% increase compared to what I am currently making.

like

I’m in a little of a pickle but a good one. Offer A. Established “start up” doing well financially and projected to hit profitability. 130k base. Stocks offered, unlimited PTO, and 70% Medical covered. Offer B. Is at a business much larger…90k salary with 10% bonus and generous stock offering. Titles are different which is why the pay is much different. I know some may think it is a no brainer but offer A allows me to grow the department ground up whereas offer B id be apart of to just different

like

What should I expect in the nonprofit world for Manager of Website Systems Administrator?
They didn’t put a salary range but said it’s a new role salary is based off of their recent“HR Compensation Survey”

like

If a job tells you the base salary range for a position is $95k to $110k, how much more can you realistically ask for? Does anyone have an experience where they negotiated a salary over the initial salary range max?

like

Hi all,

After the final interview, HR reached out and said they would like to extend an offer. HR gave a ball park of 135k - 145k base with about 15k in sign-on equity and 20k annual bonus.

After a couple of days, HR person came back with with 125k base and 20k annual bonus. No sign-on equity anymore. What should I do given that these numbers seem way lower than the initial range provided? HR claimed it’s because of “market conditions”.

likehelpful

What’s the average compensation for an Account Executive?

like

Salary compensation for a Sr technical program manager at Wish?

like

Been at SEI 10 years, star of every team that I've worked on, and only make $87,000 annually with a $6,500 IC target. Asking for an increase this June to take me to $100,000 in some combination of salary and/or stock options. Any tips for asking for stock options in lieu of a company being able to meet a salary request? TIA

like

Does anyone have a tool/ site that calculates what the offer would need to be to leave a current role, all things considered? Of course, it’s anything more than you’re making now, but I’m looking for something that accounts for LTE, the hassle, risk, etc.

like

What is the comp for AstraZeneca senior scientist level?

like

I had a very positive experience interviewing with Amazon for an L5 Technical Writer role. I originally applied for a lower level writing role, ending up acing my Loop, and was passed on to speak to the hiring manager for the L5 role.

Given the positive tone of our conversation, I expect to receive an offer this week.

Can somebody tell me what kind of base salary/bonus/RSU ranges I should aim for? I'm transitioning to tech and have 10+ years of professional writing experience. PNW based.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal