Is it normal for women to be able to move on no matter who the guy was?

I know it’s generalizing, but it always seems like it’s the guy who never forgets their love and loved in the most genuine way, w… more

How do I overcome this feeling of loneliness during NC ☹️ I understand that they don’t care about me anymore but I feel so sad and alone everyday

What’s your interpretation of someone telling you that you will not find better than them?

For those who have experience in long distance relationships, how often did/do you talk? I know when I don’t hear from the guy I’m seeing for a few days, he has a lot going on, but it still hurts.

Sometimes I think about my relationship this year that ended in heartbreak and it just feels like some kind of weird dream. I can’t believe it all even happened lol too bad it’s not just a dream and I… more

have been doing completely normal but just had a dream that me and ex were hanging out and catching up as friends and now i am suddenly sad. what the heck is my subconscious doing 😟🤨😟🤨

How do you find love in modern dating? NYC.

Dating someone a year after the breakup and so terrified because it’s getting “serious.” I thought I was over my ex but the more serious this gets the more fearful I get — idk if it’s that I’m not ove… more

So happy for what I have around me but have this deep rooted sadness bc i miss them. This is so annoying. It’s halloween and can’t even enjoy it

it’s his birthday today and we broke up 8 months ago because i caught him with another girl (who is an influencer and posts every thing they do). trying so hard not look…

was made redundant on friday, he broke up with me on tuesday (3 days after our first anniversary). next friday I posted on LI about going through tough moments, saying I was having a hard time, etc. on monday he … more

What if I never meet anyone I like as much as I did my ex…

going through a breakup and thought I’d write what I want so I don’t “waste my time” energy and effort into someone else again when I meet them. mixed feelings about how I feel about the text, as it s… more

Over the person. Honeslty never want to see them again but not over the fact that it didn’t work out. So much effort put into the wrong person and so scary to think I have to do it again

How can I heal my heartbreak and move on?

Just a little hope out there for those who need to hear it — I left an emotionally and financially abusive 13 year relationship (drained my bank accounts, ruined my credit, gaslit and cheated) and it … more

Planning to breakup with a lady I’ve been seeing for a few months. She’s a great person, but showers infrequently and her 🐈 reeks strongly of 🐠. I really enjoy eating and just need someone who takes… more

I feel like my ex is trying to slowly come back into my life (has contacted me a couple times and hearing things through the grapevine). I’ve been seeing someone else I’m interested in and want to continue that. … more

just caught my bf lying about where he stayed at a trip abroad (stayed at a girl’s house). confronted him about it and he kept strong on his lie (essentially saying he stayed at a guy’s house instead of the girl’… more

My ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago to the day. It was my most intense breakup of my life and the deepest love I’ve ever felt. He ended things with me, I can’t stop thinking that I let the best love I ever will have… more

I told my ex fwb of 1 month I don’t wanna spend time with him anymore and the moment I reactivated my account he reaches out to say hi. What’s wrong with people? What would someone want after I clearl… more

I have posted a lot on here about trying to escape a toxic relationship and I did it. I showed up at my mom’s house with my bags and my dog two weeks ago. Im finally safe. I have just spent the last 4… more

I took an edible im now regretting because I want to call him SOOO bad right now and I’m trying so hard not to

even tho i generally don’t think abt them anymore or want to see or speak to them bc of their actions,

sometimes when im experiencing something new i feel a stabbing pain. they were supposed to experi… more

Has anyone tapped their retirement account to pay legal during a contested divorce? How common is this? How else do people pay for it?

Feeling angry today at my ex for not being the person I wanted them to be. or the person that they made it seem like they could be. Now i have to start fresh and on a clean slate. Not super rational i… more

It’s been a slow but steady process of realizing that (1) my ex was not perfect either and (2) I let myself buy into the narrative they wrote about our relationship. For anyone else who needs to hear … more

2 months into a new relationship. Noticed she has taken a Benadryl before going to sleep every night we’ve been together (maybe 15ish nights). Red flag to anyone else, or am I judging too hard? Possib… more

Not a breakup but I’ve been really struggling the last 4 weeks with a brand new relationship. He is in the Military and away for 7 weeks for an extremely intense and prestigious course. I feel like ou… more

Any words of wisdom? I am seeing someone new and he is great. But I still feel so damn sad that my last relationship didn’t work out. It’s almost like trying to date is bringing back the heartbreak I … more

I’m having a hard time finding a therapist. It’s not even about insurance I just feel like there are not enough around me. The few I have tried send me home to write 3 things I love about myself daily… more

Does it mean anything if an ex reaches out to wish happy birthday?

Anyone here afraid to fall in love again? Found who i feel like is perfect for me but deathly afraid of making plans and pouring love and effort into the wrong person

falling in love again also means t… more

Anyone with an insecure attachment style here? I tend to have an anxious attachment style, partly driven by a childhood abandonment situation.

I feel like people that have insecure attachment styles and have not … more

Met someone I was super attracted to out in the wild over the weekend. While I know nothing will happen as he's going through a divorce, it's nice to know I can still be attracted to someone n… more

I’m at this point where I think I need a therapist to help me leave my relationship. I know this is toxic and I know I need to leave. But we have a house and dogs and I still picture a future with him… more

I want to reach out to my Ex on our 1 year anniversary. Good idea?

We only dated for about 5 months. She broke it off abruptly, saying she felt I wasn't prioritizing her (partly true and totally fixable) and she wanted t… more