Heartbreak Help

Checking in, how’s everyone doing? ❤️

How’s everyone’s hearts doing today? ❤️

I'm so over being sick, sad, lonley, betrayed and married.
God lift these adjectives off of me; I don't want them as my descriptors - I don't want them as a part of my narrative anymore.

Has anyone experienced a slow burn relationship and can provide their experience?

How many of you know attachment theory from bowlby and actively work on becoming securly attached in relationships?

Woops, after over a year of not seeing each other we slept together again. It broke my dry spell (6 mnths) and was a really positive experience. I know why I agreed to it but I’m more fascinated at th… more

Here we go again. Another short lived relationship.
Another “I’m not ready and you deserve better” speech.

Married to a confirmed past cheater
Need to leave but have had serious health problems (started right before I found out)

They said they were going to watch a game at our local HS - they used to coach alot of the players - but… more

Looking for part time position as home health care

Can we love someone deeply yet still harbor resentment for the way they made us feel—especially when we once felt whole before them?

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I'm not sure where else to post this but I think I need to break up with my boyfriend. We've been exclusively dating for over a year and a half and neither has ever said "I love you" to the othe… more

Having a new work crush is very helpful 😀
He’s not exactly…available, but it’s still a nice change!

Almost 2 months out from the end of a 7.5 year relationship, and it is not getting any easier. I'm working out, eating better, going to therapy, journaling and doing all these things that are supposed to make… more

Just curious: how many really good friends have you lost to disagreements or differences. I’d like my friendships to last forever, but not all of them do. And I’m beginning to wonder if I’m at the end… more

My spouse thinks they will solve our marital problems by starting a business.
my guess is they believe this will get the funds needed to live separately.

So far they have spent $4000 of our small savings; but won't keep a… more

How’s everyone doing?

Just want to share that instead of feeling sorry for myself, I started to invest in myself instead. I'm down 5 pounds since the breakup, have been reading more, joined Orange Theory, and am only d… more

If someone sends you a text to breakup with you and offers to chat with you on the phone, don't do what I did and talk to them shortly after. Let it sit for a couple of days to process it and then… more

It’s been 5 months since I saw him last. He told me he’s in town yesterday and made no attempt to see me. But has texted me non stop for the last 24 hours, telling me everything he’s been doing, sending me … more

Looking for resources (websites, groups, or books) for individuals in their late 30s navigating life changes.

I recently went through a divorce and am seeking guidance on how to restructure my finance… more

I’m scared. I have a hard time letting go and I’ve only had people give up on me despite how hard I try. I’m scared I’ll never find the kind of love I crave. And it’s something I need to somehow make … more

Divorced after 8 years of marriage.He cheated and abandoned me.
I have No family in this country.

Can someone wake up after 5 years of telling you they love you and then say they don’t have romantic feelings for you anymore?

For anyone who’s been on either end of this kind of conversation, would f… more

After many months from a breakup, Why do people go out of their way to make their life private so that their exes can’t know about their life? Not that I care, but wouldn’t people want to flaunt to t… more

10 months post break up, here I am crying again 😢

Love is such a silly thing. and my nostalgia is going to kill me one day. no part of me wants my ex in the current version of my life and i’m much happier now

But i still mourn and am wistfully nostalgic for the … more

Was in a relationship I started off hoping would be the final one. It ended after 5 months; it was the right call, and it made sense to end it given our values didn’t align. Interestingly, the heartbr… more

It happened again. I don’t feel like I should even try anymore because my heart can’t handle it. Why is it that nobody ever wants to fight for me the way I do for everyone else

I just wish people would stop hurting me and realize I’m not made of stone

I feel completely lost and worthless , I was dating a girl for last 5 years , I fought a lot for this girl as my parents never approved of her because of some cultural differences. I went to see my mo… more

The only social media app that I'm connected to my Ex on is LinkedIn.

This morning, one of the articles she like shows up in my LinkedIn feed and I notice that she had changed her profile Pic. I was tempted to go and che… more

I felt like I was in a good place and had pretty much gotten over my Ex but I saw she posted on her snap story and swing her face brought back all the heartbreak and missing her but at the same time I… more

I’m so tired. Every day is a battle I’m fighting just to not pick up the phone and beg for them back in my life (if I felt like it’d work I would, but I know I’ll never get what I want). I hate myself… more

Best post breakup advice?

Learning to live with heartbreak is one of the hardest things we will ever do. Knowing that you cannot change the past and can only move forward, but it happened and you cannot forget either. Every st… more

I’m in this cycle with my ex I can’t get out of. Since things ended in December, there’s been 3-4 times we see each other last minute unplanned. Sunday I ran into him again. I was out alone at dinner … more