Marriage Advice for Professionals

Married male fish - what was it about your wife that made you say “I can marry this woman”?

How big of a deal is a name change? Newly wed and wife and i recently got into an argument because she wouldnt be changing (or adding) her last name to include mine (it wasnt something i asked about w… more

Haven’t had sex with my partner (we’ve been together for 9.5 years) for almost a year. He never initiates anymore and when I do initiate it, he usually says tried or some kind of excuse. And no, he’s … more

My husband is emotionally handicapped. He doesn't know how to communicate his feelings and stops talking even if there is a small argument . I am tired of trying and crying. He won't budge for… more

Longshot. Can anyone recommend a divorce lawyer in Seattle?

My husband wants another child now, but I'm not ready. We are having trouble finding common ground, we're basically at a crossroads and he's feeling forced down a path. It's affecting … more

Had a baby six months ago. The baby is sleeping in his crib but it’s in our room bc we don’t have space for his own room (yet) as we are in an apartment. Intimacy is low due to being tired, stressed,… more

It's another week of passing ships in the night. My husband's schedule and mine are rarely synced these days. Missing those lazy Sundays together. Is anyone else struggling to find quality tim… more

Any F from Pune here?

We both are in our mid 30s. Its been 3yrs after our kids were born, there’s no intimacy between us jot sure why. We always talk about lets get dirty tonight but that never happens. Though there’s difference… more

Any advice on delivering bad news (health related) to my husband. He is going through a lot right now and under a lot of stress already. I just got pap results posted online, showing I have precance… more

Anyone here between 50-60? If so, how often do you and your spouse get intimate?

My partner and I were married this year and I’m looking for advice on where to find the best financial advisor to help us plan based on our current situation. I have a great job in marketing, but he’s… more

Anyone found a way to stop fights from lasting more than 24 hours..what's your secret? My wife and I don't fight often but when we do it drags on and on, no matter what I do.

I'm not married yet and gosh I have saved up a good chunk of money, travelled quite a bit, bought whatever gadgets etc I've ever wanted. Left jobs to take a break for a few months. Took risks … more

Is it ok to be in a sexless marriage? Where the spouse doesnt want to do it all? Refuses to have sex or even talk about why she doesnt want to do it? She has all the time and feelings in the world to … more

My friend just got engaged, and I'm looking for a great book for her and her fiancé to read together. She mentioned wanting to do couples counseling since they have some common relationship issues… more

Are there any of you working in the catering industry?

My manager texted me today asking if I could call him today (no context). I’m on my 7th week of maternity leave, and I have a total of 4.5 months of maternity leave. I have not been long with the comp… more

My partner refuses to go to couples counseling. It's been years of me suggesting and them shrugging it off. I've offered to let them choose the therapist and make it once a month. Still, they … more

Kolkata Folks : DM for meet up /connect

How suspicious is it if a man who has been married for 15 years (no kids) doesn't wear a ring and has no sign in his socials that he is married or even in a relationship? Any pictures of them together were ta… more

Can we all agree, giving head for both parties is an established 21st century standard?

Today was our anniversary and I had no idea. It’s almost end of day now and I’m here looking for suggestions, so things are already worse. How to get things back to normal

Date day for me and my spouse of many moons (a decade and a bit).

Confession: I still get nervous before we go.

Anyone else still get those pre-date jitters? 🥹

I’m 29 F married 1 year to 30 M. I waited until marriage to have sex (husband had lots of sex before meeting me). Since marriage I’ve done absolutely everything in my power to make sure he is happy in… more

To all working women, and mothers how do you plan work and home stuff, when you have child 2-3 year old.
And that too for micro family!? isn't it difficult?
If anyone has left job because of this, l… more

Need advice, anyone have time to talk over dm ?

Looking for advice! We're newlyweds coming up on our 2 year anniversary. I had the opportunity to purchase a condo I was renting before we got married, but chose to forgo that and moved in with my… more