Anyone here between 50-60? If so, how often do you and your spouse get intimate?

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I am 34 and I an having regular sex with my neighbour, she is 48. Her desires are never ending

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I'm 52, husband is 55. We're still intimate about once a week or at least a few times (3-4) every month. On vacation it's more, and during times of serious stress or crisis, it's less. It has ebbed and flowed for sure, but we still try to prioritize intimacy at least once a week

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I am 51 anfd my husband is 55. We are still intimate about every other day. It really depends on what we have going on that week. Like I always say, I am old not dead. No shame in it.

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Thank you for your responses! I’m seeing someone much older than myself, and was honestly a bit surprised by how often he wants to be intimate, but good to know it’s normal

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I am low 50s, wife low 40s. We have 2 young kids which unfortunately often co-sleep w 1 or both of us separately. Co-sleeping is sweet from a parent perspective but doesn’t help maritally since we are rarely in bed together. Our average intimacy is 1x a month. Had to initiate a talk a few times when gaps extended 1x every 2-4 months. I know co-sleeping is not the sole aspect of our lack of intimacy but it is frustrating me being high libido and she being low libido nowadays. We have been to counseling years ago but wasn’t focused on intimacy.

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