After talking to a guy on Hinge for about a week I gave him my number then he unmatched with me. 😭

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Dating apps are a numbers game, try not to let one experience throw you. If he unmatched, you’re better off finding out now than 6 months into a relationship. It’s hard, but consider it a chance to interview as many people as you have interest/energy for for the position of your partner. If they duck out early, lets you move on to another one who could be a good match.

I have a friend who calls dating apps “playing the people slot machines” - there are wins out there, and other than pulling the lever a lot and being really clear and honest about what you want, a lot of it is left to chance.

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Thanks for the book reco!

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Coz he wants to connect via text or a call?

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Maybe but I’m not hopeful.

I think you need to assume anyone you’re talking to on a dating app is also talking to multiple other people. A random unmatch like that could mean a million things, but more likely, as frustrating as it is, he’s possibly just further down the line with someone else

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Why did you give him your number rather than making plans to meet up? After a week of messaging and a video chat, I usually try to arrange a meet up, then give him my number after if it goes well.

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