I wish I could find a guy who is as crazy about me as I am about him. I always meet guys that like me but I feel lukewarm about them or I like them but they don’t like me. Ugh. Why is life so difficult?

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Same. Then I chose a guy I'm crazy about but he's OK with me. Initially, I put a lot of effort in this relationship, much more than him. And after 1-2 years, he became crazy about me. And now we've been together for 5 years already, I feel he loves me more than I love him. It's a long way to say - that how much people like each other is dynamic.

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You are so lucky. I wish that one day I could be so lucky

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M here, Are you me?

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I'm similar, I find myself drawing in avoidant and ambivalent men who play hot/cold.

Something in my energy is definitely drawing them towards me. I'm working on shift out of it but not exactly winning the battle here.

That’s not me that wrote that, buddy.

No but you two could be a great match!!

How much of a chance are you giving them? And are you taking into account how they express themselves?

I’m asking because my husband was definitely more into me than I was into him when we first started dating, but by a month into our relationship, we were totally crazy for each other. It just took a little time for me to get on the same page.

My husband is an introverted man, so he also expresses himself differently than I do. Sometimes you need to learn to read someone to find out how much he/she cares about you.

I think if you have taken time and also accounted for personality differences… then it just means you haven’t met the right person yet. I’m convinced he’s out there for you!

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