Am dating another lawyer. Neither of us work at law firms or even the same industry. Couple of class years apart. Any advice?

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Instructions unclear; pillow talk over subject matter jurisdiction

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No sudden movements… I cannot stress that enough.

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Flash photography is strictly prohibited

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Showed this to my gf and she said it was all “hearsay” but I’m unsure what that means (I’m a corporate lawyer).

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Leave the lawyer brain at the office.

If you must brinfbgome the lawyer brain, use your legal skills to reach settlement, not litigate.

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I’m in a relationship with another lawyer too, different industries, different levels, and honestly, it works great as long as we leave the legal debates mostly at the door haha. We've been together 4 years so I guess my biggest advice is to support each other’s wins and don’t make it a competition. It’s very nice having someone who gets the grind!

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Communicate with each other through your personal counsel

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Look at the ground when you speak

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Don’t talk about work if yall like to second guess the other’s rationale?

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