I started a new job a month ago and that just so happened to be when my birth control decided to screw with my emotions. I can barely hold it together already and I have the added stress of a new job and it being busy season. I don’t know what to do. I cry multiple times daily. I don’t know how to keep going.

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You can’t do anything about the past to deep breathe let it go. Time to push forward

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Drink some coffee to get you over the afternoon hump. Make a list of items to do with timing of delivery. And crank thru them over the next few days to get caught up. You can do it!

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Can you consult your dr, ask them what you can do and maybe stop your birth control until you normalize and then try something with less side effects?

I just came from the doctor and we are going to do that. I’m still concerned about my work performance. I feel really behind and filing is so soon I feel like I dropped the ball.

I am so sorry! This happened to me when I was on Junel. Try a different bc asap and do what you can to self care in the meantime. You will get through this!

This has happened to me as well

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