Another fly day, but today is 1 year sober for me. I used to love airports because I could run to a bar as soon as I pass security on a Monday morning. Yet I didn't think I had a problem.

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Congrats! You’ve seen every day of the year sober and survived a lap around the sun ☀️, one day at a time. Just keep focusing on today. :)

Year 2 of sobriety (which I’m currently still in; 21 months and counting) has been about getting to know myself, but more importantly, learned to accept “Life on Life’s Terms”.

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Congrats!!! I’m about to hit 6 months and for some reason the cravings are back harder than ever. I also used to see an airplane flying overhead and think about my next drink. Still working on rewiring but sitting here well in advance of a meeting alert and ready with no headache is reward enough for now. Onwards and upwards!

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Really great post! Thanks for taking the time to share such valuable information. I am in AA as well and absolutely agree that you have to find the group with the right “vibe” that suits you.

Aint denial a b*tch? Lol

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Congrats on 1 year! As someone on this bowl once told me, one day at a time.

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