My spouse and I met at a rave 7 years ago. At the time we were dabbling in various recreational drugs (acid, mushrooms, weed, k, molly, alcohol etc), but over the years we've slowly cut back drug use.
I've always been v connected to the rave scene, and before I ever tried drugs I would attend events sober. These days, w my career and where I'm at in life, I'm back to going sober.
2months ago, he decided to white knuckle sobriety (except alcohol 🙄) and has become v judgemental of ravers contd
Addiction is a sneaky smart foe. Nothing you can do unfortunately except take care of yourself and not protect them from any consequences. Al-anon or nar-anon meetings may help YOU- I’d encourage you to look up meetings in your area if you aren’t going already! Prayers for your sib.
My heart goes out to you OP. I second the comment(s) about al-anon to help you deal with loving an addict. Best of luck.
Maybe he was thinking about it, but didn’t actually do it. Is it a used syringe?
Also BCG, my brother ended up being my #1 support / confidant throughout my sobriety. I lied to his face for years and he never gave up on me. I just want to thank you on behalf of your sister. Addicts are NOT easy to love & help. If you ever need someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out to me.
100% sorry to say. Addicts cheat on urine tests all the time in brilliant ways. We're a crafty bunch.