Anyone feel guilty/bad when giving notice?

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Yes, absolutely. It’s not a “fun” process

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Yeah definitely esp when you have personal connections with coworkers or liked the work generally but something better came along - part of life

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Not when you were in a toxic environment

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Currently replaying the different ways I’ll give notice in my head whenever I need a pick me up.

For me, giving notice was harder than the interview.

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Not. At. All. I know if the shoe were on the other foot, the firm would give me notice without a thought. This is an employment at will relationship, it’s very different than my personal relationship.

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Nope. Best day ever.

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I cried when giving notice and then again like six different times talking to/saying bye to partners I liked lol. Slightly embarrassed about it but at least it conveyed how much I loved working there. I still keep in touch with most of those folks

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Yes, and a lot of apprehension. A few years out—it was absolutely the right call and my life is meaningfully better. The prior form wasn’t a bad fit, which made it hard, but my current firm is just streets ahead.

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Don't understand why you'd feel guilty/bad about giving notice. You are doing what is best for you, and that is the only thing that matters. You don't owe your firm (or your coworkers) loyalty.

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