Anyone struggle with embarrassment over how immature they were?

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Me x5. I have no idea why when I first started practicing so many of my law school colleagues referred cases to me. I’ve since earned a really good reputation though. By I cringe at my own immaturity often.

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Nope. Everyone was immature before they matured. It’s just how it goes.

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I hate it when a clip from 10 years ago plays in my mind like that—helps to think that I only remember it because it was embarrassing, others likely don’t.

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Embarrassment about how little I know 😱

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