Apparently I have ptsd from my last marriage and get triggered with manipulative situations. I can control myself at work and in the situation but tgen find it impossible to leave the house and have lost several jobs this past year. I am doing what I can to work through the personal things bur am looking for advice on finding a job that triggers me less.

Is bigbasket Bangalore is good to join as a senior engineer??
Is work life balance and job security is issue there ??

Just moved to Chicago and looking to make new friends.

Age 26, if that matters

Hi Sharks can you please tell me which can be a better option for me in case of job security and work life balance
Yoe : 7.9
Tech stack: endpoint manager SCCM
IGT (dufry client) : 22lpa includes 5% variable (complete WFH)
Mphasis (UCB Pharma client): 21 lpa including 5%variable - Hybrid working
Techm: 19 lpa + 1.25 joining bonus
TCS : 18.45 lpa

How did you guys meet your SO?

How do I leave this industry? I hate it. I literally wake up sick to my stomach with dread at the idea of going to work. I don’t enjoy any of my job functions. I cry at work at least once a week.

Here to tell you guys that each of us mending from either leaving a bad relationship or having some leave us: things are going to be amazing for us! I believe if for myself and I am so happy! And meeting new people is FUN. Laughing with friends and being yourself, away from all the drama, pain. Liberate yourself by deciding this breakup is your evolution into your best self!

How do you manage the stress and anxiety around billables? I feel like there’s no happy medium. You’re either smashing your targets but stressed and overwhelmed with the workload or you’re anxious that you’re not hitting targets. The job would be so much more enjoyable without them!

Does anyone like ID work? Currently doing work at a PI/Medmal plaintiffs firm while in school and trying to figure out where I’ll be happiest post-grad. I LOVE it, but don’t know if ID will provide more security. For context, I had a, albeit, short career prior to law school and will 30 when I graduate in May. Comp and WLB are important given my later start.

I have an offer for EY LLP for Dell project, someone plz help me , how is the wlb on this project. I had a call with project manager, he told all fairytale things.

Anyone who said no to a prospect because of personal reasons? Going through a rough patch and would really appreciate some advise on how to do it without burning (that many) bridges.

Perspective: monogamy is anti-human nature; in this era where each parent could raise a kid independently, marriage tends to be a shackle on many aspects of life. We live once, why does society expect us to live with 1 person for 60+ years? No wonder divorce rates are through the roof!

Publicis Sapient or TIAA, both for Mumbai location.. both giving almost same package, which one to go for?
WLB>LEARNING>work culture

If our mental health is not good at the moment, how do we convey it to the team? Most of the folks in my team take such things lightly and I feel weird to let them know about it. So I just have to lie and put a sick leave.
Also, even before friday ends, I start to stress about monday… and I think that is wrong. We should look forward to work and not stress about it but sadly the people around me here make me want to leave the office.
Please tell me what to dooo?

Hi Sharks.

I am working in Devops role with 6.9 yoe.

Holding below offer.. Please suggest which company is best for devops role by considering all the factors.. Learning.. Career growth.. Technology.. Wlb... Job Security..

Standard chartered : 24 Fixed 2.5 variable pay
Cgi : 26 fixed.
Fractal : 25.5 fixed 2.5 committed pay + 1 lak joining bonus
Bosch : asked 28 still not released the offer

Thanks in advance.!!!

I took an in-house gig working with friends late last summer and I am about to get an offer from a biglaw firm for basically my dream position—I am feeling terrible because my current department is understaffed and I like the work, but the biglaw position has huge advantages including remote work and way higher salary. The actual workload will likely be the same. Someone tell me I am not a monster for leaving so soon!!!! Any advice, if you have jumped ship early and don’t want to burn bridges?

Does anyone have advice on going through a breakup and focusing at work. I am struggling

Dear Fishes,
Plz help with below info.

1. How is WLB in Cognizant for Senior Manager (SM).

2. What's RCGTH Domain in Cognizant ?

3. Is it good to join Cognizant now as Senior Manager considering all the tantrums as many people are moving out of it..

Pls advice.

How is PwC AC in terms of WLb and Career growth and opportunities? Tech -SAP YOE-6+ EY Deloitte PwC Accenture IBM Accenture Cognizant

What is the difference between IFS and non IFS projects in pwc. Which will be better?

I am RTL design engineer at Qualcomm with YOE 3.5 and this AR cycle I'm expecting promotion as Senior design engineer.
For Bangalore location, What market correction I should expect and what should be the base salary after promotion? What is the general hike?

I NEED HELP WITH CREDIT SCORE issues: Two months ago my credit score went down by 30 to 40 points due to dad missing credit card payment by a day (i got added to as authorized user on his credit card for me to build credit but now I’m filled with regret). I was devastated by it. This past month I have been making more payments and paid off my aug statement in full thinking it will boost my credit score. But I don’t know why it went down another 10 points. More below:

My spouse’s was given 221g yellow slip when she appeared for her H4 at Delhi consulate. Its been more than a month no update. Can anyone help me how I can escalate or follow up? Support email id customer care agents reply only with generic emails. Please help folks!

Hi! I’m doing some research on employee benefits (medical insurance, 401k, HSA/FSA, commuter benefits) and was hoping to connect with People specialists or HR professionals in the comp & benefits space. I’m trying to better understand any pain points or challenges you might face with utilization/enrollment. Anyone interested in connecting? Thank you!

How's it going guys.

Hi folks,
I am working as a Business Analyst with 3.5 YOE and in total 4.9 YOE. I am getting 6.7CTC which felt totally low. If I switch then how much I can expect as a market standard currently. Thanks

I'm new to the city

What's your Age, Sex and Favorite thing about Philly?

30/M/the love for the sport teams

Not sure if I am getting laid off. What are some key signs. Thanks in advance for your help?

Hi anyone could help me with saviynt IGA professional certification.. any dumps or tips would be helpful.

Let's say you were dinged without interview in R1 but improved your test score significantly. Anyone have any idea if they may reconsider you for R1 if you sent the new test scores in?

So who else is at Hilton Orlando this week?

Any openings for ETL Informatica power center with 10 years of experience and notice period 3 months

A safe place.

Many PTSD tools/screening instruments are out there. The quality and meaning may vary, meaning the author should be different than the one who profiled my Hogwarts's Hat :)
Talk to a professional.

Sometimes it's hard to breath

Hollow if you know the song at the title/image of this group!

Someone I know (really...) sent a note to HR that says "By the advice of my therapist, I will no longer work in corporate full time, let's contract!" (I'm paraphrasing of course).

Many took a moment to reflect.