Consulting Fathers: Were u traveling till last week of ur partner’s pregnancy? My colleague’s wife delivered 2 weeks early and he couldn’t make it back home in time. Don’t want it to happen to me.

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Definitely not. Stop traveling at least 3-4 weeks before she is due. Congrats and good luck!

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The last week? You don’t know when that is until it happens. I have 3 kids. You need to be off the road by 34 weeks. Don’t eff this up

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Same. Stopped week 34 or 35 for my kids.

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Echo above. I stopped week 36.

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34 for me. Remember, it’s not just about being there for the birth, it’s also about being a good husband to your 8-9 months pregnant wife

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34 for me as well. Slowed down the travel to 1-2 days a week when she entered her third trimester.

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Agree. Lesson from the field: My baby is arriving two weeks early...TODAY. They had to induce but waited for me to catch the first flight of the AM to get to the correct coast in time. Would not have to have run around like a maniac if I had been here earlier. Happy Thanksgiving present to us!

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Yeah I stopped about week 36

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started working remotely 2 weeks out

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Stopped traveling 38 weeks in

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I was traveling when my wife’s water broke with our first. She was over 3 weeks early and the the doc had said I should be good up until the next week.

Fortunately (for me) the first labor generally takes a long time so I made it to the hospital in plenty of time.

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Congrats MD1. Much to be thankful for indeed. Please make the kiddo wear a ridiculous Turkey hat or similar. Being that photo out for prom.

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Mine came 5.5 weeks early, luckily I had a pretty awesome team/manager at the time. I was off the road by week 33 as we had a high risk pregnancy. Don’t be ‘that dad’ who missed the birth of their child because of work!

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Stopped at week 36

Yep agree with all of the above. Sometime something has to give and you need to be treated as a real whole person not just a single note deck delivery system

I missed my second ones birth cos traveling into week 38

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