Did partners try to get you to stay when you gave notice? If so what did you do? Did you stay or leave?

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I would not stay. If I'm choosing to leave, it's usually because of issues within the company that I can't resolve. I don't leave lightly and I can't be convinced to stay once I'm ready to go.

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Yes. Also left. You flag yourself as flight risk by giving notice, so imo once you give notice, you should leave unless they offer you a retention bonus/other offer that makes it worth your while to stay.

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I have not been in that position myself, but friends have. Never accept the counter, because now they know you aren't loyal. Their attempt to keep you is likely only temporary until they find someone to replace you.

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Not an attorney, but I made this mistake as a senior paralegal—my boss countered something very similar to an offer I had received elsewhere and I reneged on my acceptance of that other offer in the name of comfort, mostly. The devil you know, right? Now that employer whose counter I accepted is laying off a significant portion of its staff because of poor business management. Luckily I found another way out before then, but I probably should have trusted my gut the first time. I’m not sure I would have liked the other firm better but generally if you’re not appreciated or valued until you’re about to leave, that’s not going to change now if you accept the counter.

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Agree with the other comments. I put in notice and I kindly heard out their counteroffers and left anyway. If they offer you increased finances there’s a solid chance they’ll try to recoup by providing less in raises and bonuses later. If they offer changes those changes may or may not come and won’t necessarily stay. They also now know that at any given point you might be looking for an off ramp and might spring notice on them again since it already happened once before, presumably without them suspecting it. You now run the risk of being a lower priority for opportunities (promotion, novel work, long term assignments) because they know this. Also you have to gauge the fact that if you stay you’re likely burning the bridge with the company that was willing to bring you on so you have one less option in the event you later want to leave again.

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No. I gave notice and that was that. No attempt to keep me

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Yes, and I left. Will the partners address the issue(s) making you want to leave?

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I believe the research shows that a majority of people who accept a counteroffer are gone within a year.

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Interesting question. All the articles on it say “Research shows…” but do not cite the actual studies. Obviously, not the most reliable information if no one actually cites a real study. I guess that is why the numbers cited in the articles range from 50 to 80%.

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I stayed. Don’t. Admittedly anecdotal, but it typically doesn’t work out in my experience. I had good reasons and would probably come to the same conclusion if presented the same way again, but it did not work out.

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Yes, but still left.

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