Does anyone else feel their anxiety spike when life finally goes well, like waiting for the other shoe to drop? How do you handle that?

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Yes. But if you stay consistent in your positive behaviors and are generally kind, then eventually you feel that you deserve the good things.

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Sweet. Consistent on my positive behaviors. Taking note.

I used to do that, but now I'm grateful and hopeful for any bit of happiness in my life!

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Now that’s positive!

Not really no. I just enjoy the ride. What happens happens, I'll worry about it when and if it does.

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Smart!

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