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I think it’s easier to get concessions and understanding when people already know and respect you, so I would probably stick it out where you are for a moment. There’s no reason you can’t transition later when you’re less vulnerable.
I’m always game for taking an interview. It’s not like you have to commit to anything. Plus, you can figure out it’s the kind of place that supports working moms, even if you don’t make the move immediately.
I echo others that said it’s nice to be in a role where you have proven successes, and you know what kind of flexibility you have as you also figure out life for you as a working parent. I would’ve fully crumbled under the stress of a new job + a newborn at the same time, even though at the time I was desperate for a new job.
Everyone’s situation is different, but my priorities definitely shifted.
Sigh. I feel for you.
I shied away from a new / more demanding job during my pregnancy. In the end it was probably the right thing to do because of how sick and stressed I was anyway. When I came back, I was thrown into the pit and really struggled. I wasn’t mom tracked per se but my review want the best and a year later they still haven’t given me my due. IMO. The mom effect is real. But different for everyone. I think about trying for that kind of a job now, but having the same feelings about my health and stress (and thinking about #2 soon).
In the end you have to make that personal calculation. I opted for the less stress version. But it’s relative. Would I have adjusted to my new role and been fine? Maybe. Is my current stress level actually less stress? Who knows.
Best of luck.
Don’t do it! I’m trying to find my way brand side.
I think the better question is, is the timing right for you to pursue that path right now? There will be other opportunities. Where do you want your focus to be?
I think you need to trust your gut! Your Self is talking to you. Gotta listen. You may not fully realize how intense new babies can be. I personally had no clue, even when I thought I did. Why put that extra intensity on yourself? Even if you can “handle” it, why do you need to? Also worth noting that hypertension is NO JOKE when you’re pregnant. If you see that coming now, why would you put your health last in this scenario? Pay yourself first. And enjoy this experience that is so rare and precious.