Due with my second at the end of December. Wondering if anyone has any tips to extend maternity leave as long as possible? I’ll get around 5 months off by using some of my vacation time but would love to get closer to 6 months off if possible (ideally paid). I’m located in MA if that helps!

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I’m in MA as well and used PFML to extend my leave (partially paid) beyond what my company offers, but not by much, because PFML overlaps with your companies non-STD policies, unfortunately. I got an extra 2 weeks, womp. The only option I had was to tack on unpaid PTO.

You can see if you qualify for additional STD, if you’re experiencing any post partum health impacts, mental or physical? I know others who have been able to take more for PPA/PPD/PPR

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I'm due in May and in a similar situation, also in MA! Would love to hear what worked for you and if you have any tips on maximizing paid leave!

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Currently on mat leave now. Assuming you qualify for FMLA, that’s always a fall back option (though unpaid). Not familiar with MA state family leave but In NY we have state paid family leave, it’s paid but not a ton (max is around $1100 a week) but after my full time work mat leave runs out, I’m using a mix of NYS paid leave and PTO days at work to extend for another 2 weeks and still getting like 2/3rd of my salary.

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