For the women, what’s a quality in guys that turn you off? And what’s a quality you look for in men?

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Turn off: Lack of confidence, lack of emotional intelligence.
One quality I love: The ability to banter, and “ping-pong” a conversation.

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Turn off: being woke or overly political, talking about her ex
Qualities I love: caring, confidence, ambitious

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Turn off: Lies, politics, and boasty behavior

Qualities: Intelligence, independent thinking, emotional intelligence, leadership.

Turn off: when they talk incessantly about how they think Trump will fix the economy (spoiler alert- he's going to tank the economy), being rude, not listening/asking questions/inability to have a decent conversation

What I'm looking for: true partnership, best friend, someone to enjoy life with (concerts, sports, travel, etc), someone kind and caring

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Turn off: My biggest one is inconsistency or flakiness. Starting out one way and then just falling off.
Quality I love: Confidence and ambition

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