Got a performance review that was...underwhelming. Makes me question whether my dedication even matters here. How do you stay motivated when you don't feel valued?

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Leave. Time to find a place where your dedication IS valued.

I used to see a therapist who would tell me that in the white collar world, a lack of criticism is praise. It’s not ideal but I think it’s normal.

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