Hi friends,
I'm a married female with age 27 . I got married 2 years ago . Although it is a love marriage,I'm afraid of intercourse,because of that I'm not even getting a sexual mood. Because of pain,I'm just allowing my partner to enter the tip of his private part. I'm also applying lubricant. Help me with some advice . Lubricant has to applied on female private part or male private part ?.Pls don't comment anythin offensively or funny. This is a serious note as I'm in need of help with advice

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I was like that only 1.5 years ago. It's still hurts to me if I am not aroused.
First set the mood,
Do proper foreplay
Ask him to rub you down gently.
Then if it is wet the only ask him to insert. Also insert half only in starting.

Try from behind. It works for me as from front it hurts sometimes.

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Thanks sis

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Mostly if you guys are having good foreplay.... Oral and Fingering then you don't need lubs as well.... You guys can try applying lubs for each other and lubs are oral friendly too... Try some good position which is deep penitration friendly...

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Yes it is very normal to be scared.
Don't follow any adult videos. Slow go with each other. I used to shout few months ago when my husband used to insert.

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I messaged you genuinely for discussion and then you left the chat just after saying hi,
literally disgusting

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if you are not comfortable to discuss then why did you put up this post

Foreplay. Lubricants and some inhibition blocker would help.

Foreplay is most important

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