How do you deal with finding out that a student died of covid? How do you process it?

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Over the course of my 26 years teaching, I've only experienced the death of a student that I personally knew. I am always struggling with trying to navigate the appropriate response. I want to acknowledge the loss, but I often don't know what to say.

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like any other student death
However if it’s more than one in a school we’ve got bigger problems

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And how do you cope with that? Some people do not know how to cope with the loss of a student, let alone to something that threatens their existence daily.

I agree with Pennsylvania - like any other student death. It put my anxiety into high gear (even though the student died 4 years after I'd had her), and I've had an extremely hard time with anxiety ever since.

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