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If you felt the same way feel free to share your story, I can unfold mine in the comments and share some more details because I'm trying to understand what I can do to improve myself in a way to quit once and for all the nest.
I can totally relate to this when I was a young girl I tried so hard to be independent and I did really well and I've always done well but I've never been able to forgive myself for not being brave enough to take Financial risks. That I failed at being able to support myself and my son on my own because I was not mentally sound enough strong enough experienced enough I just encourage you don't give up just keep going and keep doing the best you can for yourself make up your mind and be determined that no matter what happens you're going to make it. Because you are competent and you are capable and you will succeed and your mother will leave the picture eventually but this I encourage you to do get away from her fast as you can live frugally, carefully and stay focused on the truth for yourself. And trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not upon your own understanding with all not upon your hardly not upon your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will guide your path. Jesus Is My Redeemer and he helped me get through it all. Wasn't fun it wasn't easy but we have the victory in Jesus our savior forever.
I don't want to believe that I'm competent or anything, I want to believe that I can take my own decisions in life without anyone judging them.
Financial risk will come when I'm going to be ready to take the final step idk and it's not that I want to leave the house bcs I feel bad or something it's just what I'm supposed to do at some point in life you want it or not...
I think no one is competent in anything in first place, and there are many factors to consider in someone's personal growth when talking about knowledge and expectations. Narrowing down all of them into religious beliefs with words that are meant to motivate individuals to do better without a clear view/inspection, I think it's only a way to detach the individual more from reality.
I appreciate the comment and I admire you for the things you did but l feel we're onto two different ways of seeing things.
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I would like to help but I'm not really understanding your post.
I have spent 6 years abroad, living on my own and experiencing a life that was continously changing. Now that I'm back I feel like everything got static, and it will be much harder to get back to the lifestyle I was conducting previously, this due too many different factors.
Adulthood I understand is a different state of existence compared to youth, but staying at my mother's doesn't make me feel like an adult neither.
If I can switch back to what I was doing before I'd do that, because I can't recognize myself in the things I do here, in the people neither. I admire those who come back from abroad and move to very quiet places in Italy, but let's say I'm not like them. I firstly thought that I was coming back to recharge my battery and then try again, but now family and everyone make me feel trapped in here. This is the main reason why I'm writing in the depression mental health topics, this situation got so heavy that gave me some sort of depressive thoughts that won't get away easily.
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I am having a hard time understanding this post. I feel it is genuine yet it makes little sense to me. Where are you from?
I think it's more understandable now. I dont know from where are you from but try to use a translator from English to your mother tongue. I tried to see if it works in Italian and it made defenetly sense to me 😊
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