Hi Ladies, quick question, how do you get your boss to listen to you?! I report to a Senior Lead and this has happened SEVERAL times that I brought up an issue and he brushed it off and a month later he’s all like why didn’t you tell me about this?! Like how do I make sure he’s actually listening to me?

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I recommend sending him an email with the info and CC a scrum master and a manager if needed, to avoid this from happening again.

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I would suggest if you have one on ones to write out notes and tell him you will send out notes for your one on one. Always have a paper trail or email trail. This way it will be easier to show the Senior Lead that you aren’t being listened to. Even when you meet on Zoom, take notes and send out the notes to say this is what we talked about.

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Semetimes I go to their manager. I hate to recommend that but sometimes it needs to happen.

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