Witnessed ageism in a unusual way. I am a P, Male, 51
Client counterpart and I were discussing a Consultant and the client told me he didn’t want this guy because the consultant is in his 50s. I quietly told the client that cannot be a reason plus I am in my 50s and you should have seen the client back paddle with compliments for me. Just a weird situation. Ageism is real.

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Oh man! That’s awful! I’m also 51 and female so this hits home. Are you going to do anything about it like report to your leadership just for awareness?

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Like we have a bullseye

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Also for board roles 50 is young.

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Other than the best bacon, what’s a “ p, male”!!?

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It’s discriminatory based on age

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Spent so much of my career wanting more experience and “gray hair” only to find that not very helpful in this day and age. 🤦‍♂️

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Totally agree and no one highlights it with people in their 50s

Yes, I face this a good deal these days.

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