Witnessed ageism in a unusual way. I am a P, Male, 51
Client counterpart and I were discussing a Consultant and the client told me he didn’t want this guy because the consultant is in his 50s. I quietly told the client that cannot be a reason plus I am in my 50s and you should have seen the client back paddle with compliments for me. Just a weird situation. Ageism is real.

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Oh man! That’s awful! I’m also 51 and female so this hits home. Are you going to do anything about it like report to your leadership just for awareness?

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Like we have a bullseye

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I was listening to our 1H earnings call and they spent 15 min. of the hour talking about the younger employees and how valuable they are. Forget the experienced employees that keep you afloat...most of the younger crew make more than I do...a lot more.

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Totally agree and no one highlights it with people in their 50s

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Indeed. I was wooed hard by a headhunter for a non-profit board. Have very little time to spare but finally said yes. A month later they come back and actually say we went with a couple of younger people and will keep me in mind. I mean I was 54 when they talked to me so not sure why they would waste my time and then actually tell me the reason!

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Also for board roles 50 is young.

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Other than the best bacon, what’s a “ p, male”!!?

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Partner

It’s discriminatory based on age

Yes, I face this a good deal these days.

Spent so much of my career wanting more experience and “gray hair” only to find that not very helpful in this day and age. 🤦‍♂️

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