Hiya, I’m 30 year old male, based in UK (originally from India). Looking for some meaningful relationship in my life.

Any thoughts abt married couple ?

Am I gonna be alone forever?! I’ve been in a handful of long term relationships. Some great and we ended as friends, some ended crappy. But all in all I do have some relationship experience. But after this last break up, I’m starting to get a little hopeless..(34yo lesbian here)

Is anyone having second thoughts about their current relationship?

My little brother is in law school and unsure whether to pursue a big law career. He’s ambitious, but wants a meaningful job that is not 24/7.

We have been blessed by financial support from family: By no means super rich, but he will leave LS with "only" 40k in loans, and owns a debt free apartment that pays his 1.5k mnthly mortgage.

He therefore doesn’t feel he "needs" big law money.

I’m in big law bc I’m a degenerate workoholic, while he has a life. Find it difficult to offer him advice.

Folks with kids - what's your routine for cooking, gym, home chores etc. ? We have a 2.5 year old toddler and we struggle to cook food, drop off our kid in daycare and then cook dinner and find time for working out. I am curious how other working couples organize and manage cooking, home chores gym. I am recently diagnosed with ADHD and curious how others make it work while working full time. Thanks!

I am overly stressed that my parents are visiting and staying with me for 5 weeks. Paid them for a cruise but still have 4 weeks. I am dreaded to live with them 4 weeks without social engagement cont'

My boyfriends brother just found out his wife of 12 years is cheating on him. Now he’s moving in with us in the basement. I feel so sad

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

My ex husband was an extrovert and alcoholic. He went out with drinking buddies or anyone who would join him several times a week. We grew apart. Why is love so blind? It should have been obvious...

A guy who I was seeing for 6 months and who ghosted me suddenly just let me know that he got back with his ex. Pretty devastated tbh. What’s helped you get over similar situations?

I’m in my second long-term relationship (first was from age 16-20, he broke up with me). My current boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I feel like it’s time to end things. However, I’ve never ended a long-term relationship and it feels legitimately impossible. Our lives and families are so intertwined and I just don’t know what to do. How did you end your long-term relationship? Advice?

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

How often does your significant other kiss you? I feel like my girlfriend smothers me : /

Anyone have kids that struggle with night terrors?

My daughter had one for the first time last night and it scared the crap out of me. It was like she didn’t know who I was.

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

Hi Sharks - Do we have anyone working here in a BNPL company in a product/Strategy role? Have few questions with regards to things that impact conversions for a payment method while cart abandonment.

Pls DM if someone has any kind of experience. Thanks in advance!

SE Asia itinerary: 2 days Bangkok, 3 days Koh Yao Noi, 2 days Penang, 2.5 days KL, 2.5 days Singapore. Thoughts?

Got into Wharton r1 - but should I shoot my shot and apply r2 to GSB? 👀

Is the word “quid” just a British expression for a pound, similar to Americans saying “bucks”?

Would you take a 5-7% pay cut to work for a boutique firm you’re really interested in? Also, you would be living in a state where the cost of living is a lot cheaper and be traveling M-Thur.

Does anybody in here work for private industry product mananagement/marketing/bus dev?

Hi , For a role of Senior consultant with 8 YOE how much salary can EY GDS offer ??

I am just getting into STEM/STEAM. I’m the one that has basically introduced it to my school. Being a newbie, I would love some good websites to get ideas, especially for the summer for my summer camp

Hi Everyone!! Looking for opportunities/referrals for senior consultant profile in ESG domain.
current experience 4 years
preferred organisation: Big4 or MBB

M&A folks - how busy are you right now? Do you feel the slowdown?

Thoughts/advice on leaving privacy law to practice corporate/commercial law?

I was ignorant and went for a non-target MiM after undergrad. Now that I’m in tech consulting, should I consider Exec MBA once I exit to industry or potentially MBB implementation?

I have never seen an engagement team do SO much work on planning analytics. This is insanity.

Since JPM is increasing salaries for analysts in CIB, does this apply to analysts in strategy too?

At what age did u lose your s*x desire? I a 28 and I don’t feel it fun as in the past. I feel sad

Hey guys, quick question: are codefendants allowed to attend the deposition of each other? I. E: can codefendant A attend the deposition of codefendant B? This is with each party represented by counsel.

What’s everyone doing for thanksgiving?

How's the weekend going for y'all?

Any pakis in the house???

Hi there 🐠🐟, how y'all doing! F25 here based in Mumbai.

Philly what’s good? 34 M

Did anyone meet people through this bowl?

Is this an active bowl??

If so, 28M, Muslim, in NoVa, looking for F’s bc Salaams and Dil Mil are horrendous and figured this could be an option.

Why is this group so dead??
Something wrong with our Desi mentality ?
I am sure most of the people are single here, still it’s too empty and dull, what’s wrong with us 😂😂

Looking to meet a F as well. 31M. NY/NJ/CT area. Short, stodgy and balding (imagine a brown George Costanza). Actually, no glasses - I had vision correction surgery. Any takers?

44f in chicago. Any single older desi males?

I have been meeting this girl for matrimony for almost 9-10 times now, we hit it off pretty well - we event spent a couple of entire days together -morning to evening, just working together and talking. We would text each other 2-3 times a day at least. Now she went on 2 dates with some other guy and hasn’t even messaged me once. Is it weird? Am I wrong in thinking whatever she and I had is over?

Looking for friends in NY area. Feel free to comment if interested! 27F

A simple tip for the bowl, please don’t be thirsty. Respect people around you and know that you can not and will not date/marry everyone on this bowl or the world. Just try and seek honest connections

F 30 Pakistani New Jersey. DMs open for serious people :)

32 M in London. Got divorced after a very short marriage. Have moved on and not given up on love, willing to give love and marriage another chance. Happy to connect with 🐟 from US, but just letting you know life’s great in London!

Being single in this quarantine is the worst thing ever. This could have been such a fantastic bonding time with our S/O (if only we had one 🤷‍♀️)

30 m ny/nj. US citizen. Moved as a teenager. INTJ. Single since I figured I’m not fighting the biological clock and have all the time in the world to meet someone and get settled. Things changed after I watched Akshay’s mom (Indian Matchmaking) tell him even 25 is too late and not marrying somehow messes up lives of people around him. While the show was staged, there might be truth to the latter part.
Looking for F in ny/nj. Personality: NOT Aparna. NOT Nadia but def more Nadia than Aparna.🙏

Hi, any F here from Philly? 33 M

Hi Friends, do we have any social events happening in Chicago where we can meet and make new friends

Hi fellow desi fishes, I am 29 M looking for a F in Houston area preferably for a long term relationship. Please DM if interested!